This girl i really like has suddenly distance herself from me like nothing else....we use to go out heaps, have lunches go to movies, dinner once and also coffee....i never asked her out cause she broke up with her b/f...we use to go out even when they were together...always her choice to take me...not mine.,....recently though shes really distancing herself from me ???why i dont know....its like she heard something bad,or has got annoyed at me....we work together but shes leaving soon...and i want to sort things out before she moves on in her life....she still talks but i know its not the same, and we never do things together now....we still laugh etc...but like i said not the same....what has happened people. I spoke to her mate, who thinks its nothing, and it prolly isnt anything to do with me....this is coming from her friend...she told me to not ignore her...and to talk talk whats up and that it not right what shes doing...her mate also said this girl says good things bout me????
2006-12-09 16:31:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one thing id like to note is that we started hanging, going out more once she left her b/f.
2006-12-09 16:31:37 · update #1
maybe its something with her. She could be going trough personal changes. Let her do her thing, but dont try to lose conection with her. Let her know you are there
2006-12-09 16:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by EMUmonster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are really good friends, tell her how you are feeling. You don't have anything to lose. It may be you. Since you are feeling so much more for her, you may be misinterpreting her actions. Just my opinion. Maybe since she is leaving she is distancing herself from you because she is going to miss you and cares for you. Be honest with her. Tell her how you really feel. Many people miss out on the love of there life by not opening there mouths and saying something to the person. Good luck:)
2006-12-10 00:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said she use to go out with you when she already had
a boyfriend and, you know, there is the answer.
She is a player and players don't care about nobody but
themselves.
Find somebody that has class, somebody honest
and have good self esteem.
2006-12-10 00:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might have been using you till her bf saw the light and came back to her do yourself a favor get someone new to hang with and then just cool it for a while and give her some space she might be feeling over whelmed right now just give it some time don't be pushythat really turns the girls off
2006-12-10 00:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by sportlvr45 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Either one of these:
1. she has smthg going in her mind tats really bugging her
2. she changed her perspective about u
3. mood swings? or she found smone new?
believe her fren when she says ur girl talks good things abt u.
& u shud know its wrong to go out with her when she dating some1 else.
2006-12-10 00:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by zxcv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be that since she broke up with her ex, she realizes that she likes you as more than friends but doesn't know how to deal with that.
2006-12-10 00:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Question #1: shes probally depressed from her recent break up.
2006-12-10 00:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
HEY:
ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT SHE IS PROBBALY INLOVE AND WAS JUST USING YOU AS A SCAPEGOAT BECOZ SHE BROKE UP WITH HER BOYFRIEND AND SHE NEEDED A DISTRACTION!SHE SENSED THAT YOU LIKED HER AND USED THAT AGAINST U!
I AM A GIRL AND I AM SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE SO PLS DONOT MIND BUT WHEN A GIRL IS BROKEM HEARTED SHE USES AND DISCARDS !
JUST LEAVE HER ALONE YOU DESERVE BETTER!
HAVE SOME PRIDE AND BE HAPPY!
LOVE SANAM
2006-12-10 00:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think she found out that u like her and she's not ready 4 a relationship.or she might have found out that she likes you and she does not know how to tell u.......
2006-12-10 00:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by Val.w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have bruised her ego by not asking her out.
2006-12-10 00:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by Kalia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋