I have nowhere else to go as I am in a foreign country. help me? he keeps going on at me, and gets aggressive. He lives here but wont go anywhere, just has a go at me all day. Any advice?
2006-12-09 16:12:24 · 11 answers · asked by Frankie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, in a way I am in the same situation.......
I live with my ex and his parents, his wife lives there too,
and he yells at me about everything
the only difference is I'm not in a forgen country.......
My advice to you,
try to get your own place,
or try to find commen ground.........
sorry if i'm not much help.......
stacy
2006-12-09 16:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Stacy ` B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well somethings definitely wrong....how about the whole situation!! Any man that abuses you mentally, physically or psychologically Is not a MAN!! He has problems that he needs to deal with before he can be In a loving relationship. Don't think that your stuck with him you need to get Into the phonebook or online for a crisis help outreach center. Even If you have to stay at a homeless shelter for a couple days they will provide you with your own place within a reasonable time, If this Isn't that serious and you can talk to him the two of you need counseling maybe he can start and you can join later but you shouldn't have dealt with him from the first time he raised his voice at you!!
2006-12-10 00:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by passion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your ex then leaving would be the best. Arguing will cause many problems like increased stress. While it is painful to leave in a foreign country it will be a ton easier than arguing for a long time.
2006-12-10 00:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could go to a Domestic Violence Agency and they can assist you with getting away. And you should get a job if you are not employed that way you will have an income to pay for rent and have piece of mind. The National Domestic Violence Hot line Number is 800-779-7233 call them and they will give you the number to the local agency in your area. What you are describing is emotional abuse. So if you want to get away, it will be difficult, however, I think the peace of mind and quiet will be worth the cost. Good luck to you and God bless****
2006-12-10 00:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u absolutly dont have any where to go, maybe u could have talk with him and tell him that what he does and says to u is hurtful, and if that doesnt work, maybe u could try doing somthing fun together, or alone to get away for a while. good luck, i hope the situation betters for u
2006-12-10 00:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention what country - but leave. See the embassy for possible shelters while you arrange your way out.
2006-12-10 00:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should go back to your country because this could end up with you being abused....either physically or emotionally.
2006-12-10 00:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police to take him in jail I can not believe he would do this to a woman
2006-12-10 00:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by Egzon M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats kinda tough. you cant really do anything about his attitude. maybe find someone else who you can move in with?
2006-12-10 00:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by thisoneg1rl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move into a friend's house or something
2006-12-10 00:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋