I'm not flat chested nor do I have big breasts. I'm average I guess. (34 C)I know that my boyfriend likes big breasts. This is a fact because everytime we are out in public he can't help but gawk at other women that are gifted naturally in this area. There has been times that I have had to smack him in the back of his head just to get him to snap back into reality.It really makes me feel inadequate. It may seem to others that I am insecure but I'm not by far. I have a great self-esteem but when my boyfriend does this, it makes me feel as if what I have is not good enough for him. It makes me second guess myself and I don't like it. My boyfriend tells me that my breasts are perfect ,but there is NO sincerity in his voice when he is saying this to me. It is hard for me to actually accept a compliment from him.
(I used to be a topless dancer for goodness sake) So what is a person to do in a situation as this? Tell him to **** off and hit the road? I don't know?
2006-12-09 16:07:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I"mmmma Looking and i'mmmma liking...Don't know what his problem is
2006-12-09 16:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Guy in PA 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Natural
2016-03-13 05:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice pic. Try this , if he likes big boobs--have him imagine how he'd like that same pair when the gal is 55 and gravity has taken it's toll. If their real there is no way she'll be able to just "walk" into her bra like she did in her 20's. If he can visualize,he'll figure out how nice you do look. If he's just lookin' cause he can--don't worry to much.. As my grandfather used to tell me "It don't matter much where you get your appetite--so long as you have your supper at home."
2006-12-09 16:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by T J ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the jerk hasn't learned by now.
a) Make a joke of it. Everytime he gawks, he puts $5 in a 40D cup at your place.
b) cut up a bra in 2 cups, two shoulders, two sides. Give him 1 piece for each gawk w/ understanding when the pieces are gone, so is he. You may need to mail them.
c) Us males are taught by tv/media/net to consider women as walking gawkables. It may time to train us, but we need your help.
2006-12-09 16:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes baby, this IS a bad sign. he has NO CLASS!! Looking at obvious breasts is one thing, glancing is no big deal either. But I know the kind of guy you have...And I despise them!! You deserve better. He does not consider your feelings!! THAT is all the reason you need to move on!! Good Luck Baby!!! There are good guys out there!!!
2006-12-09 16:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
hun that is the males nature they look at what they dont have.. but if he likes yours then there is no problem as long as all he is doing is looking.. talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel and if he doesnt listen then he has no respect for you and then you should tell him where he can go and find a man who loves and respects you for who you are and not what you could be in thier eyes
2006-12-09 16:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a man, I can understand his fascination for large breasts, that does not however give him permission to disrespect you like that, especially in public. Try making a scene next time he does, I mean let him have it, really loud for eveyone around to hear. If that does not hinder his behavior, dump him!
2006-12-09 16:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by ggordo594 C 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
34C is awesome, and so I believe it when he says he likes them...BUT, you have to understand, guys are always going to look..doesn't matter if you're married, he's still going to do it. And not just him, but any guy! So you might as well make your peace with it, because he won't (can't) change.
2006-12-09 23:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by Poster22 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are beautiful and they (boobs) are nice as well. I wouldn't worry about it. Keep your chin up and know that you are wonderful and you are also blessed with nice beautiful breasts. (not to sound weird but they are nice)
2006-12-09 16:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could tell you differently, but when I see a hot set of jugs, I can't NOT look at them. For some of my girlfriends, that's a problem. For others, it's not. If it pisses you off leave him. Just know that it's because of your insecurities and not because he as a "boob watching problem."
2006-12-09 16:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by DrRocco 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋