to be kissed by the guy? SHoudl a guy ever just go for
it without any clue from the woman ??
What wiil the woman say or do?
Can a guy try to kiss the woman without any clue??
2006-12-09 16:06:14 · 18 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, first off the "jingling keys" idea from hitch sometimes is accurate. and, i find that i do this sometimes, if i want him to kiss me, during a romantic moment i'll repeatedly look down at his mouth. THAT'S A HUGE CLUE!
if you just went ahead and kissed her, withou pressuring her and being a pervert she wouldn't mind. but first start with a peck, then she'll pull toward you if it's okay for you to kiss her.
you sound like a sweet guy and the fact that you asked this question shows me that you kissing her on the 2nd date is okay. enjoy your date and relax. have fun!
~slacker
2006-12-09 16:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by santaz_lil_slacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok keep in mind the looks that she gives you ok and
if she is distant to you an dont kiss her till the 4th or the 5th date
this date ask her if you could hold her hand an if she takes a while to anwser thats a NO.
an listen to her keep looking at her eyes an see what you fell
when she says yes or No. and the #1 thing is DO NOT RUSH IN
this may sound stupid but when you think she wants a kiss
kiss the side of her face an wait there for 2 to 3 seconds an if she dont kiss your lips dont kiss hers it keeps her mind going she now knows you like her but you respect her because you dident kiss her on the lips.
the 2end date is to soon to be thinking of kissing or any thing else but getting to know each other but what you can do on this date is kiss her hand guys never do that anymore an the side of her
face , belive me it works
2006-12-10 00:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by SGT SEXY MAMA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah! u dont need a fcking clue 2 kiss ur date. lol. i think most girls expect to be kissed on their 1st date. since ur is the 2nd, go for it! n she'll enjoy it. maybe u can try kissing her by using some pickup lines like.. " babe,, whats that on ur lips.. " n when she says where u just give her a kiss.
maybe u can do it in a playful way.. :) good luck 2 u!
2006-12-10 00:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by jzen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you ask her for permission to kiss her; that's one very good clue. It also shows that you are a gentlemen and not a lech. If you want to take the chance of getting the snot slapped out of you (and this could happen), then I say, go for it. Otherwise, treat a woman with respect and you will get much more back.
2006-12-10 00:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by sharptooth3 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yep.
You asked the right questions. If you walk her to the door and she jingles her keys (movie plot), she wants a kiss. If you make a move and she backs away - she makes it clear. Try kissing her hand earlier in the evening and see how she responds.
2006-12-10 00:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the girl doesn't want to be kissed she will just act like any normal person would but if shes expecting one she will flirt and twirl her hair and laugh at your jokes and maybe ask for a kiss you never know as for when to kiss her if their is a very romantic moment go 4 it and it is always perfect to kiss her when you bring her home i know it seems so cliche but girls like that. one more piece of advice. if you ask to kiss her she will feel awkward so just surprise her she will love it.
2006-12-10 00:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could just wait until you're saying good night to her and then look deep into her eyes and lean in very slowly. If she wants to be kissed, she'll close her eyes and tilt her lips to yours and if she doesn't, she'll step aside or give you her cheek or say, "Well! That was nice! Thanks a lot!" and go into her house.
Just be sure to do it slowly so she has time to realise what you're doing and has time to decide if she wants you to or not. And make sure your breath doesn't stink.
2006-12-10 00:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just kiss her. It's the best way to find out if it will work. There are no clues. Girls or women are evil, manipulative creatures who will lure you into wrongful traps and trick you when you think you're so sure. So just kiss her.
2006-12-10 00:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by iamsoboredandtired 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if she keeps looking at you and if she makes eye contact for more than 2 seconds and if she does it often then u know she is thinking/imagining u guys kissing...if she urges to be close to you then lean over and kiss her..but if she looks down on the floor often and isn't close to you then dont make a move...good luck on that date!
2006-12-10 00:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally, if you're not sure, I'd wait until at least the third date to try to kiss her. Otherwise, if you're comfortable enough, just ask her, "Hey, I really would like to kiss you. Would that be okay?" It's not as "romantic," but she'd definately appreciate it! Good luck!
2006-12-10 00:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋