I spent a lot of time in Sweden. There I met a few years ago a kurdish guy trying to get asylum. Well, he didn't get it, tried a few places in europe (I went to visit him in Paris) then ended up back in Turkey. I think he had to go to jail for 7 months. He is afraid to go in the army because they think he is ppk freedom fighter but he is not. I heard now he is trying to get to Poland and somehow got a Bulgarian passport. He loves me very much , never asks me for help or money even tho I am from USA. We have a 15 year age difference, I am older, and I am not sure we would actually have the same lifestyle if we did get together. But I still love him and just got a phone call from him after 1 1/2 years because he lost all his papers when they brought him back to Turkey. (His uncle finally found it.) Should I go visit him in Istanbul if I find the $$$. Would this just be leading him on if I don't think we have a future? I am so confused. Any advice?
2006-12-09 16:00:18 · 2 answers · asked by leilacara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go!.....If you don't have a future, you would be wasting your time and money. Plus, who knows what can happen in a foreign country these days. Especially one so close to the middle east. Home is safer.
2006-12-09 16:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by FireBug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes-run the other way! Find some nice stable man without all the drama. Do you need it???
2006-12-10 00:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by life coach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋