I have been dating this guy for two years and now all a sudden he wants to play games and assume that I am cheating on him because I work and attend school everyday. I mean I'm 21 with a lot of things on my mind but messing around is not my style. So is it wrong because its hard for me to talk to him any more about my thoughts and feelings, he makes it all about him? I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-09 15:37:38 · 13 answers · asked by Callie B. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it wouldn't necessarily be "wrong", but it would be disrespectful.
go up to him, and, face-to-face, tell him that since he's acting thia way, you have no choice but to break up with him.
since this break-up is not your fault, don't say "sorry".
"you said I was cheating when I wasn't. you didn't believe in me when i was honest with you. i can't trust you anymore."
be straightforward, and don't try to sugarcoat it.
hope this helps and the best of luck!
2006-12-09 15:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear his assumptions of you and that he wants to play games on you, especially since you have a good head on your shoulders and are busy with work and school.
Well, you have invested 2 years into this relationship with that guy, so I think you have to break up with him face-to-face. It's the right thing to do, even though the e-mail sounds tempting.
Good luck!
2006-12-09 15:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 09:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. if u really wanna breakup, then its not wrong to breakup through email. its another way of communications tho.. lol.
but u've been with him 4 two years.. maybe u should tell him face 2 face coz the message ur gonna deliver to him will be more.. u know.. emotional. :P
if u breakup through email, he might think ur not serious with it or he might just dont know how u feel bout this.
but dont u think its a waste to breakup after 2 years? maybe u should discuss with him.. but its ur wish to breakup or not. n if u do, face 2 face is the best. :) good luck.
2006-12-09 15:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by jzen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yall been dating for two years he deserves more then a E-mail break up. You should talk to him about it and him that you think yall should take a break from each other because it’s not working out. And if he dosn't listen then you e-maill him without thinking twice.
2006-12-09 15:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kay G. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were dating for like a week, then maybe e-mail dumping would be OK, but not after two years. YOu need to sit that boy down and talk to him!
2006-12-09 15:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you've been with him for so long and you are 21 you should do it in person, it'll make you feel better.
2006-12-09 15:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. do not break up with him over an email. that's just plain g@y. u are 21, not 14 years old.
2006-12-09 15:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's lucky you gonna email him my ex dumped me through a txt and all he said was he couldn't take it anymore its to much for him(WHAT?)even though he was the one who said I love you first and all that bull so he's lucky you taking the time to type out a letter to email him i wish my ex put so much thought into me when he was dumping me!!!!
2006-12-10 11:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, poor taste, at least face to face.
2006-12-09 15:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by avery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋