why do men have to make life so fricken impossiable.
they just don't get it.
women are sensitive, they don't see that either.
where does a woman find a man that is going to be good to her and pamper her. and affection.
i am lacking so bad for love i just don't know what to do. i've bee n to church, no good men there, if been to the bar,they aren't in there.
internet,, haven't met anyone that really makes my heart stop.
what do i do my dear friends?
2006-12-09 15:30:40 · 23 answers · asked by tabatha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I DONT UNDERSTAND THE QUESTION
2006-12-09 15:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by MR. EARL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just have run into the wrong men. You wont find a good guy in a bar but you should have found one in church, maybe try a new church or visit one. I think one of the best places to meet someone is in college and at work. Because you can find out a little about from the way they interact in class and on the job
2006-12-09 23:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is bad to say but for some men their behavior is groomed by the women they have been in contact with before who have allowed them to treat them "any old kind of way". It makes things difficult for the rest of us who want something better.
Women need love, attention, affection and to be 'pampered'. We need to feel like a man cares...to have someone "stop our heart" with the way he is with us. To have a man with you who makes your heart skip a beat when you see him or think of him. WOW, now that's love that ALL WOMEN desire....not just a quick hit that we get nothing out of or a nasty attitude that we wish we never met!
Hang in there. I found my Prince Charming! So will you!!!
2006-12-09 23:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kokomira 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
have u gone to every church.. not possible. don't make us into a one line statement. no one is perfect. i know a lot of mean spirited women who are all about themselves and getting what they think they deserve regardless of anyone elses needs or feelings. they are called feminists. just try to relax and the right one will come along sooner or later. guys don't want a clingy woman who wants everything now. its extremely unattractive. hope that helps and good luck
2006-12-09 23:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ben S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, the thing i did was just stop looking and realize that when you stop looking for love and making it your first priority, then it will happen when you lease expect it--i was going through the same stuff right before i met my boyfriend and i did stop looking and just kind of gave up for a while and he ended up coming up to me and asking me out.
2006-12-09 23:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is a learning experience, you can't find a man exactly what you have wanted. if you are both a wise person. you'll teach him what you want him to be, and likewise you'll follow what he want out of you. again it can't be exactly what you dreamed of, but you should meet the deal halfway.
find somebody who physically attracted you most, and usually he is somebody who has similar facial features or structures as you have.
2006-12-09 23:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's more likely?
1: Every one of the thousands of men you encounter is flawed somehow.
or
2: You're the one who's screwed up.
Everyone else has the problem, right? I'd put my money on you being the screwed up one.
2006-12-09 23:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by DrRocco 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
change your atmosphere, talk to those guys you wouldnt really talk to. learn about all the differences men have, i can tell you now there are alot of men who are able to show there emotions and affection for women.
2006-12-09 23:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Slappn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do women make it that a man has to jumps thru hoops and romance every second of every day them just to get noticed.... maybe you asking for too much and making it a bit impossible to find what you are looking for....
lower your standards and open yourself a bit more.... don't be too quick to judge the book cover..... read the damn book....
2006-12-09 23:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by JohnS 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do some people have to make broad generalizations about groups of other people, like: 'Why do men have to be so ignorant'?
2006-12-09 23:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by brave_ulysses@sbcglobal.net 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok so one or two guys treat you badly and you say all men are ignorant? Ok.
2006-12-09 23:33:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋