my bf and i have been going out for about 10 months. pretty good huh? well im started to think hes giving me too much attention. im like "i need my space!! i cant breath!!" any ways i dont tell him this well i kinda told him. but he wont back off. i think if we just be just friends for a week then i will feel better. but will this skrew up our relationship? cuz im not sure if this is the best time...befor christmas and all.
2006-12-09 15:07:51 · 14 answers · asked by ashlie b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give the guy a break he is obviously head over heels for u just try to make him understand how u feel, i went through the same thing with my gf and we have been together for 6 years now. Just tell him in a nice way!
2006-12-09 15:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by shmila22501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is his sign perhaps a cancer? if so i am even more convinced that he won't stop his adoring ways. Cancers are known for that. I know it gets annoying tho. Do you spend time with your own sets of friends? Even then, does he call you when you're with them? Sit down and have a heart to hear, tell him straight up how you feel. If you continue to feel suffocated, do what you have to do. I wouldn't stay together just because of the holidays. Another question is, how serious are you guys about each other? Hope it works out.
2006-12-09 15:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him know that you need some space but I wouldn't just put everything on hold. If you are ready for a relationship just tell him to let you breath but you still want to be with him. If you don't want to be with him and you are using the space thing as an excuse, let him go. Don't split up if you like him. He must like you alot.
2006-12-09 15:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ashlie, There is nothing wrong with feeling like you need some space sometimes. Make sure he knows that you would like some space, don't hope or guess that he realizes this, flat out tell him. Obviously be nice about it, but most guys understand that because we like to have our space too.
2006-12-09 15:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Raven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened with me i was all on my gf. She just told me that i was being a lil too much touchy feely. And she told her friends to come talk to me and to try to get me off her a little bit. and so i did just a lil and were still together its been almost 1 year 1/2. Good luck.
2006-12-09 15:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by hughson_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a couple more warnings about your space and he should come around. If not, yeah, do a week of space and see what he does.
2006-12-09 15:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't go from being a couple, to being just friends. I think that "taking a break" is just another way to say "breaking up".
2006-12-09 15:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds precisely like "i think of we could desire to consistently take a spoil." Which exceptionally lots potential she desires to confirm if there is something greater valuable available and if she thinks which you truly are the single for her then you definately'll "%. up the place you left off."
2016-12-18 10:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you simply tell him in a sweet way that you are a person who needs down time?
2006-12-09 15:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, it may be time to dump him. wanting space means you are tired of him.
sorry, but it is easier to do it now then after christmas.
2006-12-09 15:11:06 · answer #10 · answered by Eddie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋