She is younger then me by two years. She is really cute and I think I really like her. I dont have a problem with her being younger but the thing is my mom is good friends with her mother from being at the school and I know her older brother. The only thing is that I want to ask her out like a little bit after christmas and get to know her more before. When I ask her out, if she says no, then I dont want her parents to find out. It is a really complicated situation. I like her, dont know if I want to go out with her because of the reasons above. Im going to be 14 next month and she is going to be turning 12 later in the year. Its killing me, it is all I am thinking about. I need help from other people then my friends, please tell me what I should do and how I should do it? Thanks alot!!!
2006-12-09 15:01:05 · 16 answers · asked by Jim A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First things first do you have a mistletoe, well if you do maybe get both of you guys to stand under it and i guess you know whats next.if not to her and yourself someplace with privacy and say i like you more than a friend and was wondering if you would go out with me.if she says no tell her to keep the conversation you just had to herself,if she says yes just go out with her.another tip AGE has nothing to do with LOVE, just trust your heart and flow with it.
2006-12-09 15:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by nicole v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try finding out if she likes you in advance. Take note of subtleties in her composure, does she get nervous around you? When she looks at you when you talk, does she stay focused on you the whole time, does she take awhile to look away once you've finished talking? If there is three people in a conversation, are her eyes mostly on you? Does she get giddy or act silly around you, laugh at all your jokes?
Flirt with her a bit, but don't be overly obvious about it. If she seems to be responding well to the flirting/flirts back with you, then just draw it out for however long you think you should, and feel free to ask her out. If she's not responding positively to it, than you can avoid the whole confrontation altogether because you'll already know she's not into you.
This way, her parents would not find out about it if she turned you down, because chances are, she's not going to turn you down if you notice that she's into you. You'll probably know way before you ever ask her if she's going to say yes or not. Sorry if this doesn't help.
2006-12-09 15:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to have to disagree with Nicole (Sorry love), age does have something to do with love. As I've answered in other questions, middle school "love" is just a crush with the person or persons just trying to get experience in the dating field. But this is coming from a Junior seriously dating a Freshman that's a bit more than a year younger than him. Any way, I say go for it. Get used to dating, less wierd around girls, have a good time, and use protection.
2006-12-09 15:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Twitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dear! I guess you can date her when you going to get a bit older to 17 year old. so she can be 15. She will have understanding about what is right and wrong... She is a bit young now she can tell her parents that you asked her out and it can lead to a big issue! So! Calm your self down and be friends with her! if it seems that she wouldn't tell then! ! ! ! GO AHEAD
2006-12-09 15:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by katil007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 and 12 what are things coming to. You both are way too young for these kinds of concerns. Please take your time and enjoy what remains of your childhood. You have many many years to be old and you will wish for these years again Enjoy this time before you rush on to the next you will not get to come back to this again
2006-12-09 15:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should forget about girls until you're about a junior in college. 13 is too young to be dating, and 11 is even worse. I know girls are on your mind right now, and they will be for a long time, but you're too young to be worrying about girls. Get your life started first. Good night!
2006-12-09 15:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her, go for it!!!!! its only two years. i am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 years old. hon, age is nothin but a number!!!! my parents didnt exactly like the idea either, but they got over it once they found out what a great guy he really is. well the best of luck to you, i hope all goes well!!
2006-12-09 15:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are too young to be dating at 13 yrs old. Simply, you don't need any advice!!!!
2006-12-09 15:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if ur 14 then ur be in high school and she's still only gonna be in middle school. how r u gonna hang out with her to make sure she's not cheating on u?
2006-12-09 15:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh. five words:
DATING IS FOR HIGH SCHOOLERS!!!
(not including in the five words, but high schoolers are supposedly more mature. mature enough to have a REAL relationship. trust me, at this age, you'll see her talking to another guy, get jealous, and fight with her, and break up tomorrow.)
2006-12-09 15:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by give it to me baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋