My mom started to date this guy a few months ago. I didn't really want her to date in the first place, but I learned to except it...but then...my mom started spending the night at his house. I am a strong Christian and I strongly disapprove of it. She goes over there a lot. Sometimes spending the night 3 or 4 times a week. Leaving my brother, sister, and I alone all night. I am sorta acting a little "cold" towards her. I don't nessessarily not like the guy, but I don't like the thought of him and my mom. Am I being selfish. I don't think so but....ya. Anyway...reply please!
2006-12-09 15:00:12 · 6 answers · asked by em<3 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm sorry your mom is thinking more of herself than you, your brother, and sister. You should be her priority, not her love life. This must be very painful for you. Why don't you sit down with her and tell her openly and honestly how you feel, without accusing or sounding like you are complaining. You can say that you see her side of it; that she must be lonely, but you can emphasize that you, your brother, and sister need her presence and guidance until all of you are old enough to move out of the house and support yourselves, and will she please consider that? You can't change her behavior, but you can let her know how you feel. Good luck, and God bless.
2006-12-09 15:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by meatpiemum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is being irresponsible leaving you kids home alone all night. You need to discuss THAT with her.
The dating thing you can't do anything about- she's a grown woman and will do as she pleases, but I would certainly tell her you don't feel comfortable being left home alone at night.
2006-12-09 23:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
moms without a husband get lonely too. While I do not approve of her leaving you alone at night (you might tell her that), she has a right to find happiness just as you and everone else!
2006-12-09 23:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom should have a life 2 but she should not leave u guys home alone i thank u should talk 2 her about it i know i would
2006-12-09 23:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by lady_drama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom is doing the same thing.i learned to accept it but i still dont like it. ever since we started arguing and she ignores me and my brothers and only pays attention to her boyfriends daughter. just tell her how you feel before it is to late
2006-12-09 23:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by dylan n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom has a right to have a life too. if you feel she is neglecting you and your sibblings then tell her, without yelling
2006-12-09 23:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by clubchaos1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋