is this realy BAD?

Question

ok i sent text mesage yestday and it said your eyes are preety your simle is cute but most of all i love u and my boyfriend had credit but he never replyed is that a bad sign plz tell me? im trying to exprees my fellings but its hard cause hes shy and im am two

Answer 1

the purpose of expressing your feelings is to release those pressure which imbalances you which makes you uncomfortable.
if you once again put pressure into yourself by waiting for the reponse you're missing the point. just let it go, let it flow. if there's love it will grow.
he too will decide to release it one day, i'm sure you'll find out with no pressure.

Answer 2

I think you're looking into it to much. On a side note try to say these things after he does something that impresses you. This is the art of the compliment. It makes people feel like they've earned it instead of being patronzied.

Remember, people in general don't respect things that come easy.

Honestyly I think its great that you can express you're feelings. Emotions are what connect people and the fact that you can express them is great. By the same token try not to smother him with compliments out of the blue. I know it sounds counter intuitvie but I promise that you will get a much better reaction when you do it after he does something that intrigues you.

Just remember to make sure that the compliment is proportianate to the action that inspired it.

For example lets say that a girl tells me about a fond childhood memory. This is compliment worthy because shes sharing herself with me and building a connection. However if I was to say something like, "Oh my god, you are the sexiest women in the world to share that with me. I love you. What should we name our kids?" then she will obviously freak out. The compliment isn't proportionate to the action.

Also if you feel that you went to far then balance the compliment by saying something like "don't get a big head now."

By the way this concept is applicable to everyone from your friends to your teachers.

Best of luck.....

Answer 3

Awe, your so sweet. I don't think its a good sign. My boyfriend can't wait to respond to my text messages, especially the sweet ones. I reminded my boyfriend of the first time we met via text message and how sweet it was and he didnt have credit but used someone elses phone to tell me he loved me. You deserve someone who treats you well, don't settle for someone who doesn't appreciate the love you have to give. I've been there. It was really a waste.

Answer 4

do you know for sure he got it? maybe it never went through

try sending him another message

it's not necessarily a bad sign, no - if you keep trying to communicate with him and he never responds, that would likely be a bad sign

don't worry to much - you seem so sweet! :) good luck

Answer 5

Try telling him face to face and if he still acts the same way then he does'nt feel the same way....Save your serious moments for what they are..intimate, not thru a system that is designed for information instead of feelings

Answer 6

No it's not a bad sign.
Maybe he doesn't know what to say.
You both should continue to explore ways to express your feelings to each other, and it will get more comfortable over time.

Answer 7

wow you are really bad at expressing yourself. The best way to express yourself it to be straight forward about. And if he is blowing you off than he isn't worth the time anyway. move on.

Answer 8

It the same ans. as, "why was Moses in the wilderness for 40 years?"

"He was shy to ask for directions"

Answer 9

alot of young men dont know how to respond to nice things said to themby someone they like i know it sounds stupid but give him some time to come around

Answer 10

i dont think it means anything... but you'll never find out if you don't go up to him and tell him face to face. .. writing a text is so impersonal.. maybe he thought it was just wasn't true.. who knws.. its best if you talk to him.. about it..