I like this boy and I think he likes me too I got all the signs and everything but he has a gf. I mean we flirt and laugh and everything but he just has a gf. What do I do? Forget him and move on or what live life to the fullest and play around with him? (not in a sexual way) WHAT???? Oh and Im 14 in middle skool! If any one wants to talk im me plz!!!
2006-12-09 14:55:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please learn some respect for yourself and for others. Do you want a guy who is flirting with you while dating someone else? He'll just do the same to you. Think how his girlfriend would feel. Maybe he is just friendly and you are taking it the wrong way.
2006-12-09 15:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what to do:
1. Don't steam in on his relationship. Thats just not nice and will hurt the other girl and, worst still, it'll be clear you're the cause of the split.
2. Find someone else to flirt with. It could be that you get on well with them too and find a new relationship that way. OR......it could be that it makes this guy more attracted to you. If so then he'll drop his gf and chase after you. If he doesn't then you'll know he wasn't that interested after all.
Try not to force a situation here. Play the game and see what fate deals you.
2006-12-10 01:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look elsewhere, he has a girlfriend.
Boys and girls flirt all the time and sometimes it meaningless just fun. I still flirt at 30 yrs and have a partner (mind you so does she). We are comfortable with it and know that nothing will come of it.
My advice for you would be to remain friends with this boy, but don't be and look too keen. You'll get your chance later when he is single again.
Take two thing from this -
1. Don't be too keen, cause he'll think you are an easy catch (and get bored easily, if and when you get with him)
2.You can't jump in on the next girls boyfriend.
2006-12-09 23:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt back. You only live once. If everyone stayed with their girlfriends at the age of 14 - no-one would meet anyone! If he is flirting with you, he may be wanting to get out of his current relationship and is looking for an excuse.
Fight for what you really want - if it is him you really want, you should at least try. You may get very hurt - but do you want live life (full of knocks AND joys) or do you want to shrink away from every challenge?
BE WARE THOUGH - HE WILL MOST LIKELY DO THE SAME TO YOU -- He is clearly not 'man enough' to break it off, before playing the field - so if you DO decide to 'play along' remember that the price to pay, may be that he is just PLAYING with you too.
2006-12-09 23:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Biker B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes indeed just flirting and thats is.
I f you were his GF and he flirts with someone else then how would you feel.
You are only 14 so keep your mind in the books not guys.
you are too young as yet to know what sort of guy you want
what ever you decide just dont get hurt as its not worth it.
2006-12-10 01:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by **tomtom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its going to really hard but you need to stop the flirting and try to be just friendly, he is not the right long term guy for you if he fools around while already with someone and ultimatley would do the same to you. How would you feel then??
2006-12-10 05:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by kate c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stick your nose into your school books and educate yourself on the ways of the world before looking at getting yourself into trouble. You can always play with yourself to quieten down those feelings of a sexual nature. Better first earn some self respect and the respect of others before getting into messy situations.
2006-12-09 23:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14, Believe me , you are far to young yet, to know what you really want, enjoy your youth, while you can, it won't last forever, once you turn 16 your life will fly by and you'll wonder where it all went !
2006-12-09 23:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Gaz, how would you like it? forget about it, and if he is acting like that with his current g/friend chances are he would do the exact same too you. And you should'nt post your Age on here and then invite people to im you, its dangerous? Understand what I mean?
2006-12-09 23:04:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend hun, its not a game messing in others relationships.
2006-12-09 23:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by benn26k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋