i enjoy giving out. its fun. I'm not going to live forever so I plan to have fun. and no, please don't think of me as a prostitute. I only give out to guys i date. that means i have to at least find them attractive.
well i asked my friend out, cuz i've been liking him for some time know, we are practically best friends, and he said no. but he also said that he likes me too, just not how I act around other guys. what does he mean? why won't he date me?
2006-12-09 14:52:06 · 20 answers · asked by Megan D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys usually marry the girls who don't put out.
2006-12-09 14:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
"Why won't he date me?" Because he feels sorry for you. And, so do I.
Your behavior is self-destructive. You need to know why you have such a casual opinion about being promiscuous. Your only standard - which you seem to think keeps you from being a prostitute - is that you have to be asked out and find the person attractive....at least. If you continue with this attitude and behavior, you are going to get pregnant, STDs, or worse.
There are all sorts of flashing red lights going off. The turn down by your friend seems to have stopped you for the time being. Take some time off from "giving out" and talk to someone that can help you from going over the cliff and ruining your life - and someone else's.
2006-12-09 14:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While you are planning on having fun, also plan on not be taken seriously by any decent guy for a relationship. Pay attention to what the guys are saying here on this question. That is what the guys think about you that know about what you are doing on your "dates."
2006-12-09 14:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's weird to use the Paris Hilton excuse of "I only sleep with guys I date", becuz then you might expand your meaning of "date" to "one-night stand".
There are guys who use you and dump you becuz you give that opportunity to them. True love can wait for sex, and keep the romance awesome becuz there is a real respect for you and your body!
There is also the type of guy who will worry- if u're easy- that u will leave him even tho he really likes u. Then you might not get the guy u really like becuz ur reputation is bad.
Think it through honey! There are too many diseases out there!
2006-12-09 15:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm not tryin to dr. Phil you but, you don't want to be one of those girls on the bathroom wall with your number under it do you? First, if you want a nice guy, stop the trickin. Yeah you only give out to the guys you like. Honey you are going to like alot of guys and sooner or later, you are going to really like someone and their friend maybe someoen you "put out for" and he's going to scoop homie and you are going to hear the sl**&t word. No girl want to be known as that but if you keep bobbing hd and putting out that's where you are heading. You don't want to catch an STD and don't know who you got it from do you? Be proud of you body and treat it like a temple. true you are not going to live forever but, you want to be here for a little while- right. And yes you can get and STD from giving head even from a guy who looks like he was cut out of a magazine..............A nice guy wants a nice girl not someone who's been "around"......
A Friend
2006-12-09 15:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by lasman37 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are. They are insecure. Guys want sex, but they want to know that you aren't giving everybody else sex. Some guys say that a whore is a girl who screws everyone but him. The opposite of that is a girl who wont screw everybody but him is what a guy really wants. He wants exclusive rights to you. Your friend knows that you put out and he wants you all to himself. If really want him, don't flirt with other guys and do things with him that you haven't done with any other guy to prove to him that you are his without any doubts.
2006-12-09 14:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by want it bad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God no! Those are the best kind of girls to help guys get over previous breakups. As far as datability... it's cool if you don't like to put out with other guys.
2006-12-09 14:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not usually but in the long run yes. Life in more complicated than the carnival ride that some want life to be.
2006-12-09 20:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by zeroartmac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are turned off by girls who put out. Some aren't. I guess your friend here is (or maybe it's something else).
2006-12-09 14:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by brave_ulysses@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not turned off by gals who put out. I find it a lot more fun to be having sex with a woman than to just sit and talk all night. Sex is fun.
Maybe you're not his type.
2006-12-09 14:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋