I like this girl who flirts a lot with guys and let's just say she's that certainly not a virgin. Should I go for her and try to convert into a good girl or should I just forget about her since there's no hope? Suggestions? Please help me...
2006-12-09 14:46:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can certainly try...but leave the option open that she is what she is. YOU can not try to change anyone but you. If you are willing to risk this then try. But in most cases with this personality type they use sex to hide or cover up something else which may be and underlying issue to come out later in life....are you ready to deal with that? SHe may never change. Just becareful I would be scared of STD's. But I wish you luck in whatever you decide!
2006-12-09 14:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting does not constitute sleeping around. How can you just assume someone is not a virgin, because they flirt. Why don't you try get to know her, and maybe she's not as bad as she seems.......If however, she is what she seems, then move on and find someone decent. But at least find out for sure, before you pass her off in bad judgement.
2006-12-09 22:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by salstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you can't convert anyone and do you know for a fact that she has been around or is that just you assuming so... I think that you need to not go with anyone that your gonna be judgmental over...
2006-12-09 23:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u know there is not hope if u didn't ask her out.
she flirt with other guy b/c she is single, it mean she is searching.
if she had a bf, she would know how to act.
single people who r searching for mate do flirt, so if u don't ask how u will know?
ask her out. it good to know where u stand.
2006-12-09 22:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no "converting" anyone to anything you want them to be.
They are who they are.
And if she's been around, the best thing to do is leave her alone and find yourself a good girl.
2006-12-09 22:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun with her and find someone new if she doesn't want to be a one guy girl. No big deal.
PS you can't change her.
2006-12-09 22:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just depends on the girl. Its not advisable to try and change someone, they dont appreciate it. If you want to risk it, then yeah fo ahead and ask her. but if you want someone faithful, dont.
2006-12-09 22:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I think is that you're in LUST with her. Forget about her. It'll eat at you for a little while, but hey, you're better off.
2006-12-09 22:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by Twitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls can change but othas dont want 2 it depends on her. try and find out which girl she is 1st
2006-12-09 22:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it.if that's all she wants is sex in a relationship then shes not worth it.
2006-12-09 22:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋