When I first met my husband he had a friend (much younger) that always came out on a date with us. He was 33 and his friend was @ 19 years of age. We got married and now after 27 years I'm very suspicious. When I looked at my husbands cell phone bill it always had the same number at the same time. (His drive home from work) I called the number and it was someone he has worked with for a long time. (male, which surprised me) I asked the person if he was gay and he said no. My husband was very mad at me. We haven't had sex in 8 years and when we did it was like 3 times a year. What do you think?
2006-12-09 14:41:09 · 18 answers · asked by Nancy S 2 in Cars & Transportation ➔ Insurance & Registration
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2006-12-09 14:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not gay. If he is gay why do you think he is living with you.....Y not with his friend or some other guy..... The guy he called might be a good friend of his, and he is just mad at you because you talked to his friend like that..... That is not at all a good way to talk to a person if you thought ur husband was gay u should have talked to him 1st before talking to his friend.... And about the sex problem it migh be because both of you have some personal problem's between each other i think you should go out with him for a few days....
2006-12-11 01:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay or not, you've got problems! If you have not had sex in over 8 years, something is going on for sure. In my opinion, not getting enough sex because of some issue or because of something corrupt is horrible! It's equivalent to taking candy from a baby because sex is programed as part of life and our well being! Being deprived of this is an inhumanity like torture and unethical as far as I'm concerned.
2006-12-09 23:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i dont think he is gay but he may be mad because of the whole situation... u guys should plan a vacation or make more time for each other ... that way you canbe alone in a new enviorment ... try buying some new lingerie to spice things up and juss go for it
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2006-12-09 22:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun leave his sorry ****. just because you got married when you were happy and in love doesnt mean you stay when its bad. real bad - 8 frikken years your gonna explode!! go to the salon get you r hair and manicure done buy some new clothes new lingere sex yourself up if that doesnt work and you dont want to leave him (money security) take up a little extra on the side for yourself * wink wink *
2006-12-09 22:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by ckate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You posted this here because he phoned his gay friend during his drive home?
To answer your question he is gay.
Feel free to go out and get you some strange-you have earned it.
I feel sorry for you.
2006-12-10 12:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not gay. Well he could be. If you want to put him to the test. Wake up one morning and tell him you had a horrible dream. Then find a sex move and insist on showing him your "dream."
2006-12-10 15:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by kaylah247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to sit down with him and talk about this.
Does he know WHY you suspect this?
Also, ask him if he's willing to go into marriage counseling with you. Alot of times, more is said if there's a neutral third party present.
2006-12-10 00:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ambassador Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is too funny to be real. i cant believe anyone goes without sex for 8 years. especially a woman. it's too easy for them to have sex whenever they want it.
2006-12-09 22:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by gearhead_35k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to know you, i would have taken care of that problem in a heartbeat, is he gay, don't know for sure but i would ask him outright, if jesus made anything better than water and sex, he kept it for himself.
2006-12-13 22:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by arlene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 years????? You've waited this long?
I think your husband has used you as window dressing all these years.
You have grounds for divorce.
2006-12-10 03:49:17 · answer #11 · answered by MoltarRocks 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋