Ok so a week ago this guy told me he likes me and i told him that i like him too. We hung out last night for the first time only me and him.
Before i wasnt sure if i really liked him and i know i made a mistake when i told him i liked him before i was 100% sure about it.
But last night i realized i just didnt click with him. Im sure he still likes me because he called me today and sent me a message asking me to be his girlfriend.
Now, i feel HORRIBLE about this whole situation already. How can i tell him what is really going on in the most gentle way. I dont want him to think im a slut or something like that. I know i led him on already and i just feel really bad.
We never kissed or anything like that, which makes this a little easier to explain.
Please help.
2006-12-09 14:25:58 · 15 answers · asked by olivemenow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is probably one of the worst situations you could be in. You just need to tell him you dont like him it may be hard but unless you want to get into a BAD relationship...tell him the truth
2006-12-09 14:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by kaimoe h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aw, you seem sweet, like you don't want to hurt that guy! A total of four guys have put me in the same uncomfortable situation. By now I am more careful but still sympathetic to the poor guys- they are more fragile than girls about this. So, what works for me is using a Thesaurus/Dictionary- I find words that describe me and other words to describe the guy that asked me out. When he sees this comparison, he realizes he's not going to be very happy with me, since I'm not his type! This looks dorky, maybe, but it's the only thing that has worked for me! Good luck!
2006-12-09 22:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lilly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him--as simple as that.
Let him know that you don't think you both click. Maybe say that it may be a better idea if you guys will just be friends for now. If he asks why, be honest again and tell him that after you guys hung out, you just don't feel the chemistry there.
This is the only way to get through to him and be fair to him. Straight up like that. It will hurt him, but it is the only thing that makes most sense.
2006-12-09 22:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way to let someone down easy. maybe this will teach you to think before you speak. no matter what you say. he will still think your a B**** and so on. but move on and hope you learned a valuable lesson in the great big game of life.
2006-12-09 22:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jecht 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u have a major problem. theres not really a nice way 2 put it. just tell him u were not meant to b and tell u just want 2 b friends. if he take it da wrung way den i suggest u cume up wit a masta plan.
2006-12-09 22:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your not ready for a relationship with someone yet. That you still want to be friends, but you don't want it to move any further.
2006-12-09 22:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Woo-Yeah! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with him a bit more...you never know...you might actually start to like him...
dont worry...it happens to EVERYBODY...
if you really dont like him and you really want it to be over...just start talking to him really gently and start a conversation...when it gets to be arguementive...start to hint that maybe you two shouldnt be together or try it some other time: maybe say "not right now"..."its too complicated"....
2006-12-09 22:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell this guy that u dont like him and just get it over with and also tell him that your sorry and that u hope that u can still be friends.
2006-12-09 22:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by yasi<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a tangled web we weave, when first conspire to deceive...
Truly
ElleXiz
2006-12-09 22:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by Ellexiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh............... these are your choices: Say yes Or say u are nice in all but this is going to fast so sorry or something like that in your own words or use mine.
2006-12-09 22:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋