my first love...i still can´t move on..?

Question

i dunno what to do...i think about my first boyfriend and how he took so much from me and how he left me so coldly for his ex ex...it has been a little under a month now but i still can´t get over him...many days i wake up thinking about him or will suddenly start thinking about him as if he still loved me or just think how sad i am without him...he cheated on me, lied, and hardly did a thing for me...but i can´t forget and it just kills me thinking bout it...i haven´t seen him since he left me...i don´t know what to do...it just tears me up...i´m moving to another country in less than 2 months...will i feel better then??? i dunno
i still love him and yet hate him;(
please help me figure this out
thnx
xao:) ;(

Answer 1

You have to accept the fact that you have already parted ways. He already loves someone else. Why would you let yourself suffer all these pains when he is having fun with his life? Instead of throwing your life into waste, prove to him that he made a wrong decision of leaving you, prove to him that he should have never cheated on you by moving on.

I'm not sure if moving into another country will solve your problem but it will surely open more opportunities (meeting other people) to you. Maybe the right guy for you is on that country that you will be moving on.

Cheer up. everything will be alright.

Answer 2

Sounds like he did more harm than good.
Think about all of the negative things he did to you, chances are they outweigh the good.
And if someone is treating you unfairly, why would you want them in your life?
You need to respect yourself and realize that you are better than that and you deserve more than what he had to offer.
There are plenty more fish in the sea.
I know that phrase is overrused but it's true.
There's no sense worrying about what didn't work out, it's a huge waste of time.
Trust me, I sulked over an ex for years.
It's not worth it.
Move on!

Answer 3

*hugs*

honestly.. i dont think it wud make u feel better.
You might regret it thinking "why dint i talk to him when i had the
chance" or something like that.
i think u shud go to him and tell him how u really feel.
who knows ? maybe he still loves you. =]

hopefully this helps you.