ok.. i dont know what to do. Do you guys think that inernet relationships actually work? I have met this guy here on the internet a few months ago. Hes not some sort of psyco or anything.. I checked into that haha, dont ask how but i did.. but anyways, we love one another soo much, but yet some of my friends laughed at me and told me i was stupid for doing it and told me that it wasnt true love if someone you love is on the other side of a computer screen. We've seen one another on our cams and everything so we know what one another looks like and all... I just need some more opinions... do you think i should keep dating him???
2006-12-09 14:11:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Relationships come in all shapes and sizes.Some make it and some don't The bottom line for succeeding in one is the amount of kindness and care that you put out for your significant other as well as what they do for you selflessly.
I don't think that it's how you got there that is as important.
2006-12-09 14:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sailon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Internet dating is rather unusual and can be disappointing and also dangerous. You may think that you know each other but consider this; you cannot really know someone until you are with them in person and see how they live their life from day to day for at least 18 months.
I say that time period because a lot can happen in that time and if you are aware, you can detect things that aren't quite right. On the internet, you don't have that at all, you basically are falling for a person who types. It is not three dimentional, it is really just one.
True love does not happen in a short time, that is called infatuation. True love takes time when you truly get to know someone.
I think you have made a friend and that is very good, however, I caution you to be careful with the information you give out. There are way too many perverts, scammers and cases on the internet.
2006-12-09 14:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha... I have the same problem. Sometimes you can't help who you love, or like for that matter. So, Just meet him. But be careful. You don't know who's out there. So don't be listening to these people talking bout date "real people" and **** like that. Girl you only got one life to live, and you better enjoy it while you still can walk and talk!!! So go get him... Don't be afraid to meet him. The only person who can tell you if you should be with him is you. After all, Last time I checked, we don't control your feelings. So don't listen to half of these people. They're stupid, and ignorant, and probably mad because no one is interested in them, or they got someone but they ain't happy with them. So have a nice day, and I hope you find what your looking for. But just remember that our opinions can't determine what you feel. Don't let what others may say or think determine your fate.
good luck...
Have a nice day...
Layta...
2006-12-09 14:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by Layta H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am engaged to and living with the love of my life and I met him on the internet. We lived over 800 miles apart got to know each other over the phone and through email and snail mail. I have been married twice before and me and him get along so much better than any other relationship either one of us have ever had. Go for it!!! Good luck
2006-12-09 15:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Claire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep dating him, you'll have to meet in person. But if you do, then make sure you bring a trustworthy friend! If you go out to dinner or something, make sure you have a friend a few tables away. Not only is this for safety, but if it's a horrible date you'll have a quick fix and a ride home.
2006-12-09 14:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time to know him. Be sure that he is an honest and kind person.
In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives you air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives you water to drink and food to eat.
God gives you a wonderful body and sound mind, to live.
God loves you, and you are precious to Him.
Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation.
Jesus’ love is boundless and everlasting.
We have the hope of Heaven through Jesus.
Life therefore has fantastic and glorious future!
(Digestion of above can even prevent depression and suicidal thoughts.)
2006-12-09 14:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you keep dating him? You haven't started. A date is when you and your man meet someplace for real. You say you have checked this man out - as long as that is true, there is no reason why you shouldn't date him, but don't think that cyberdating is real. It isn't. Meet him in person, have your friends meet him in person. Then it will be a real relationship.
2006-12-09 14:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not dating him so you cannot "keep dating him"
Meet the guy and then decide.
If the guy is not near to you in proximity keep his friendship and go out with real people.
Virtual relationships can work but it's rare
2006-12-09 14:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chatting online and actually being around someone are two different things. if you guys haven't actually "hung out" you don't know as much about him as you think you do. Meet him (if you REALLY trust him) and then decide. Just be careful.
2006-12-09 14:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't love him. don't mess around with internet dating. he could be a nice guy, or he could be having a friend sit at the computer while the web cam is on.
2006-12-09 14:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋