oaky well i have a bf and we have been dating for 2 months and 2 weeks.. He says i mean everything to him.. But he will walk with other girls and like go around petting other girls.. I got rid of one of my friends that kissed him at a party soo now wut do i do about him.. I talk to him every night on the phone last night was for 6 hrs.. An he said he would do anything to stay with me.. So i told him that i didnt want him walking or going around petting other girls.. Soo yea but i told him this before and he did it behind my back but i still found out.. An this time he said he swears he will change and do anything for me not to break up with him.. Wut do i do.. I really REALLY love him.
2006-12-09 13:56:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is a tough question.
i went through the same thing and it was very hard breaking up with the guy. extremely hard. i believe you should break up with him, but still be friends if that is possible. you will be down until you find someone who can make you happy again.
i was a terrible mess after i broke up with the guy i loved, but i have found someone else who treats me the way i should get treated.
This might sound a little much, but if he does love you like you say he does. he will respect your decision of "takin a break."
hope i was some help.
2006-12-09 14:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by khs07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing first, you can't love someone in a matter of 2 months. If you want my honest opinion, it sounds like puppy love. Also, he sounds like a dog and you should've dumped him when he cheated on you the first time with your own friend. Girl, grow up and face reality because he is only telling you what you want to hear and that's the truth!!!!
2006-12-09 22:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by iadoremarilyn86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him loose. He doesn't sound like he's worth it. A relationship in the early stages should be filled with questions and worry. It's not the only love you'll ever have. Take it as a growth experience and don't settle for guys who aren't willing to make you the priority.
2006-12-09 22:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by kmchris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only been with him 2 1/2 months... I wouldn't panic...Let it be known that you're not going to take his ****....And his behavor towards other girls is unacceptable... I dealt with this with my fiance also...when we first met...We have been together 4 yrs and 4 months...and are expecting our 1st baby together in the next 5 weeks..
My fiance's problem is that he just needed to grow up....and figure out that I don't take **** from people...
2006-12-09 22:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by hawaiianmalibu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you he wouldnt want anything to do with those other girls. Save yourself the heartbreak and dump him now.
2006-12-09 22:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate guys like that.
Hmm.. well if i were u, i wud dump him. and if he really meant that u were everything to him.. he wud chase u back.
2006-12-09 22:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love a guy that's sharing his time with everyone?
2006-12-09 21:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he goes behind your back and does something that he said that he would not do, then he is not worth it! DUMP HIM!
2006-12-09 22:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Alysa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋