my ex cheated on me awhile ago and we broke up but i still like him alot but he is going out with some one and i am haveing a hard time getting over him what do i do?
2006-12-09 13:54:42 · 17 answers · asked by mmn.mmn_1023 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find someone else and you will get over him pretty quick.
2006-12-09 13:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tom B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be perfectly honest with you, it is time to move on. This guy didn't take you seriously, and it seems like he no longer cares for you. It's his loss! All you need is a good mindset. Give yourself time to recall the good times and reflect on what happened, but after a week or so, start concentrating on other things. When I broke up with my long time boyfriend, it took me a long time to get over it. But once summer started coming around, I got into different activities, made new friends, and definitely met some new guys :]. Getting your mind off the boy can help you realize that you don't need him to fufill your life. Once he sees you as happy as you will be without him, you'll have all the power, and he'll have none. Good luck!
2006-12-09 22:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep up with everything you are doing. If he cheated on you he isn't worth a second of your time. Get your mind off him and until he can show you that he has really changed and doesn't just want you around when there is no one else then don't press the issue. You don't need him or anyone like him to make you happy. Enjoy yourself and focus on things you like doing.
2006-12-09 21:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by blueprint4dysfunctional_Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. I know it sounds like something Dr. Phil would say but it seriously is the best thing. If he cheated on you, then you are better off without him. You will find someone better, someone who will treat you the way you should be treated. Just give it time, till then go out on the town and hang out with friends. Meet new people, live life, have fun and just do things to take your mind off it. Hope that helps, Good luck.
2006-12-09 22:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by Tom S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely don't date his best friend! It Is the hardest thing In the world to move on sadly my ex boyfrind cheated on me and at first even though I knew I wouldn't break up with him his girl on the side showed up In his car at my job (two weeks after he swore to me he broke It off with her) to prove to me she was still dating him. Gosh If I had known then what I know now I would've broke up and never looked back. Just remember this he cheated on you what makes you think what hes doing with her Is so much better and better yet you were always better than him there Is so much more out there for you babygirl and siting around waisting your time on him Is getting you nowhere.
2006-12-09 22:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by passion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to forget him. As he cheated once, he can cheat again. Find a new bf. Don't make out till you know him well. The world is full of ones who wanted attention from a good girl, but fortune did not favor.
2006-12-09 22:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by bestsayer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that every woman is a Queen and if a man wants to sleep with another woman and NEGLECT you believe me honey there is another one out there that can do you better then that there are men that do their women right by not cheating... Relax and put some power music on like beyonce irreplaceable and really know that a man needs to pamper you and work for it to be with you.. good luck
2006-12-09 21:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself some time. You will eventually get over him.
Whatever you do, don't go back with him. He cheated once, he will cheat twice (or more) no matter what he might say.
Right now, just lay back. Play a waiting game. Gonna get better for you in time. I promise.
2006-12-09 21:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there.
If he is doing that, he probably doesn't care about you anymore and let's face it, if he doesn't, what is the point of you wasting your time on him. Though I understand what you mean by that. You can't easily get over such matters but try saying to yourself that you deserve a better person who cares about YOU.
2006-12-09 21:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by sia68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No whatever you do dont "Hook up" with his bf. If he would cheat on you once he will do it again. If he will do that to you then he dosent love you and he is not the right person for you. Think about it .
2006-12-09 21:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound like a jerk, but you just have to move on. Start dating even if you're heart is not completely in it. Try to stay as busy as possible wether it's school, working out, friends, etc.
You'll get over it eventually, but in the meantime just try to suck it up and move on w/ your life.
2006-12-09 21:59:17 · answer #11 · answered by joelopr20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋