Black girls??
Im not racist but i guess i am a little jealous. my last boyfreind cheated on me with two different black girls then he broke up with me and told me he wasnt attracted to white girls anymore. this shocked me and made me feel unattractive. there are many black girls around where i live and i notice that they have very shapely bodies. I wonder if more and mpre white guys are starting to prefer black girls
2006-12-09 13:52:08 · 19 answers · asked by poster451 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's not a preference but being open to the possibility of inter-racial dating. Why do you assume it's their body and not their mind or personality that attracted your ex?
2006-12-09 13:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Sexual attractiveness is an individual thing. Fetishes of all kinds exist.
I'm a white woman and am sexually attracted to Black, Latino, and Middle Eastern men because of their dark skin. It's just possible that you guy really is attracted to them, and it's not a statement of your own beauty either!
You may find some guy of any race that will find you are just what he's looking for and wouldn't think of being with a Black girl.
There's no rules on what someone finds attractive. Let the guy go and move on with your life.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-09 14:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 12⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you the other side of the coin.
I (a white guy) grew up in Detroit, and a lot of the girls I dated also dated black guys and Arab guys. It made me so jealous, then mad, and finally, I'd start thinking something must be wrong with me, right.
Wrong!
I simply was not the right guy for those girls.
Just as you may not be the right girl for them.
Don't let it get you down.
2006-12-09 14:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by csburridge 5 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I know several white guys who prefer black women, as well as black guys who like white women. It's really not that big of a deal. If the man is into black girls then it's really not about you, your size, attractiveness, etc. It's his preference. And there are still plenty of guys who are attracted to smaller white women. You'll be alright
2006-12-09 14:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by voluptuousvixen007 2 · 14⤊ 1⤋
I guess the white guys are taking a page out of the black mans book. No offence to any african american person out there but have you ever notice interacial couples, ushaully the black guy is with a white woman who is farely big in size. I think men are coming out of the closet and starting to realize that the girls out there that are extremely thin, are not whats in. So they go with a woman with a bit of meat on there bones, so for you my dear i dont think its color, I think its meat.
2006-12-09 13:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 7⤊ 2⤋
I know how you feel. I'm part black, but some boys don't consider me black, so they don't date me. I guess the bigger you are (not fat though) the better
2006-12-12 15:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by warriors4ever 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be mad he cheated on you!!! I wouldn't say you're jealous of black girls though cause he could've cheated on you with a white girl, asian, hispanic, etc.
2006-12-09 14:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry! I'm sure that you are very attractive and there will be a guy who is looking for someone just like you! :) Cheer Up!
2006-12-09 13:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 11⤊ 1⤋
white men have been preferring black women.. they just try to keep it under the table. do some research in the 1800's during slavery, and u will see what I am talking about. Thomas Jefferson even had a black mistress.
2006-12-10 09:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 4⤋
It doesn't matter the color cuz I dig all shortys as long as they meet my standerds, but if he cheated on you, dont worry about it. your probably worth more than playing games with. keep that in your consious!!
2006-12-09 14:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋