it seems like everytime i go out to anywhere and see boyfriends and girlfriends together and holding hands and huging and kissing... i just feel like i have this urge to punch out the guy not the girl (i don't actully punch them i just feel like i want to) because i don't know y but i just get to angry when i have to couples do stuff like them near me while i never had a gf before and I'm 16 and I'm cute and nice, sweet personality, and now i just feel so jealous and i can't take it any more the jealousy and anger is building up to much that I'm worried that one day I'm just going to lose it and at times i feel like crying because i never had a gf and I'm starting to see that mostly all hot, beautiful, cute.... girls all go for the jocks or ******* kinda guys while I'm a regular nice guy and i have nothing!!! I mean if i had a beautiful gf i would treat her like a queen everyday and the jerks will probelly not respect them and maybe cheat on them with another girl. I just can't take it
2006-12-09 13:50:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jealousy doesn't get anybody anywhere especially extreme . Just try to calm down and not let it bother you so much. You are only 16 and have plenty of time to find a girlfriend. When you find someone you like just ask them out and see what happens. There is someone out there for everyone but this jealousy thing is going to blow up in your face if you are not careful. Good Luck and stay cool.
2006-12-09 14:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would be able to desire to pass and see your gp and have referral to a psychotherapist or counsellor to communicate your jealously and anger themes as those greater desirable than probably stem from youthful years.you would be able to additionally be affected by a mild melancholy as you're suffering such anger and occasional self-well worth you would be able to desire to tell gp precisely the type you sense.additionally you would be able to desire to take a seat back and think of of the flaws think ofyou've have been on condition that others have not eg well-being, leg,arms, eyes,ears,speech and how fortunate you're to have a number of those issues as some individuals are blind/deaf/can't walk or communicate/feed themselves perhaps this might ultimately help cut back your jealousy in direction of others.Jealousy is a unfavourable soul destroying emotion and you opt for help previously it gets out of hand you're no longer a foul individual you purely would desire to verify approaches of controlling your jealous thoughts.in simple terms settle for a grin whilst it incredibly is given do no longer immediately positioned your self down i'm particular you're no longer a freak.
2016-10-05 02:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, you don't sound very sweet. Wanting to punch a guy because he has a girl is kinda ridiculous. That's why girls don't tend to like quiet, shy, 'nice', sweet guys...They also tend to be needy, clingly, jealous, etc. The assholes may be assholes, but they don't act like the world begins and ends with their girlfriend, and heaven forbid if she even looks at another man or shows signs she's wanting out!
2006-12-09 13:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Robot Attack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out for a sec, not having a gf is not the end of the world!, you are only 16, most families don't even allow their kid to start dating yet, you have many years ahead of you to date & find the girl for you, if you are only looking for a girl for her looks, you are being shallow,when the right girl comes along you will know it,
2006-12-09 14:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by 520 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch...i feel your pain...everyone with there PDA...yuck...and all dudes are such jerks, execpt the selected few, sadly. what I do is just keep going. dudes usally don't like me so I ignore it the best i can. even though there are those times i feel like i cant take it any more. then i go home and cry
2006-12-09 14:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over yourself and stop being such a hater obviously they had someone because they had the balls to ask someone out.
2006-12-09 13:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by cokeguitarcutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, ask a girl out that you really like and can talk to meaningfully. then you wont have these jealosy issues anymore, or im me, lol
2006-12-09 13:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are to young to thank about that right now just have fun and live youre life and go to school
2006-12-09 13:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clam down find a NICE boy nd it go away
2006-12-09 13:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋