2006-12-09 13:50:18 · 24 answers · asked by blonde chick! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Change him back!!!
2006-12-09 13:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your step mom didn't change your Dad. Don't blame her.
It might be that your Dad was too lenient with you when he was trying to be your only parent. Now, he has a wife to help him stay steady.
Only thing you can do is try your best to behave.
2006-12-09 13:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by kiwi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to communicate with your dad privately and discuss this with him. He may be having other problems and just takes it out on your because he's known you longest, probably takes your love and relaitonship for granted. Let him know what he is doing and that you are not trying to come between the stempmom and you but that you don't want to lose your relationship with him. Just be honest and ask him to do the same.
2006-12-09 13:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by cmpbush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only answer here is to talk with you Dad. Be honest and be specific about what things have changed and why you don't like the change. If you don't have specifics to tell him, he probably wouldn't understand.
2006-12-09 13:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by snglelvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad, Tell him " Dad i noticed you have changed a lot lately, u were not like this before( tell him with a firm,tone of voice, and a stern look)That's how u show u respect yourself,By
acting like is NOT disrespectful.Tell him clear, what u have noticed lately,stand for yourself and he'll respect you.I'm a mom
2006-12-09 13:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by lady F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, You are just jealous of your dad and you don't like your step-mom. He wasn't forced to change. He's an adult.
2006-12-09 14:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your Dad... Tell him you want him to be happy, and tell him how you feel. It might all just be a big misunderstanding. He may just be so wrapped up with being in love. Give him a chance to make things right!
Truly
ElleXiz
2006-12-09 13:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ellexiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby your dad changes even if he was with your mom or step mom. just change with him and tell him what he wants to hear and just bear with it and maybe someday your dad will grow up and see what he is doing. you have done nothing wrong
2006-12-09 13:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit down and have a one on one talk with your dad about how you are feeling. Do it without blaming him or putting him down.
2006-12-09 13:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay im 13 too my parents are divorced too my dad is going out and he only talks to her it kinda like im not here what you have on your plate is hard to deal with this is going to be hard to do but have your dada sit down and talk to him about it i did it kinda worked but if you ever are board you can e mail me at chelseychufo@yahoo.com ttyl
2006-12-09 13:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by chels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. talk to your dad privately and tell him how she has changed.
2.if that doesnt work do little things to annoy her.
3.also catch an attidude with both of them and blame it on horemones.
5.this same thing has happened to me and they have been divorced for 7 years!
2006-12-09 13:59:14 · answer #11 · answered by Amanda N 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋