I told this girl that i was talking to that i was basically canceling her because she was so busy and i was frustrated how slow the relashionship was going. I was trying to manipulate the situation trying to speed things up but it backfired, and now i know i still have feelings and i feel she does to... HOw can i fix this.
2006-12-09 13:49:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's what happens when you play stupid games.
You will have to come clean to her and tell her you were trying to get your way by manipulation and now you see how wrong that was, blah, blah, blah...
2006-12-09 13:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm actually the girl to your situation. This same thing happened to me but I was on the receiving end. She probably isn't so busy by choice and it probably hurt her that you said you couldn't be with her because of things she can't control. Trust me when a girl really likes you she'll find ways to spend time with you and let you know she really wants to be with you. Just set her down and tell her how much you like her. Chances are her feelings haven't changed she just has her guard up now. She'll most likely be very happy that you've changed your mind and although you may have to do some major *** kissing for treating her badly in the end it will all be worth it. Good luck
2006-12-09 21:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by blueprint4dysfunctional_Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you relized you made a mistake, That you were just frustrated because you miss being able to spend time with her cause of her being so busy and that you really care about her and have feelings for her and that you will try to be more patient if she'll accept your apology and give you another try.
2006-12-09 21:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really busy because she is an active person, you were way out of line. You can't ask her to be less than she is.
You apologize profusely, explain that you understand now and will respect her need to do things in her life.
She will either forgive you and take you back or she won't. At least you will know.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-09 21:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were speeding the relationship up for.....what? what was the end objective, the bed? and she wasn't buying it? smart girl. Now you have feelings for her?
O.K. Pal, go up to her and explain yourself, tell her what a fool you were, that you have feeling for her and you just realized what you did. ask her to please give you another chance.
If she doesn't, then she doesn't have the same feelings or she's not willing to try it again with you. Then you have to bite the bullet and take it for what it is. Learn to live with it, get on with your life.
2006-12-09 21:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down first off! Then invite her to dinner where you can calmly explain your frustrations. Honesty and openness are always the best answers.
2006-12-09 21:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how can i tell u this because you really did mess up big time well you could try sending her anonomous letters and flowers and try talking to her little by little i hope this works out Good Luck!
2006-12-09 21:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling her you really f####d up and how sorry you are and well everything you told us but leave out the part where you think she still feels something for you let her tell you that.
2006-12-09 21:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by 'lil peanut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to her from the heart and see wats up with ya'll but i can't tell u what to say.
2006-12-09 21:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by Juicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calmly approach her, and apologize in a soft voice. let her do her equal share of talking. tell her what you were implying, and them tell her you love her and give her a hug. if she hearts you ims sure youll be ok.
2006-12-09 21:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by Elphaba1993 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋