I went out with this girl a few months ago and she broke up with me. I know it takes time to get over people you really like. What do you guys do to get over relationships? After she broke up with me, I tried to stay friends with her. doesn't exactly work that way I guess, not for me anyways. This is really hard for me so could appreciate some good answers. thanks.
2006-12-09 13:47:01 · 5 answers · asked by CK 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just a little thing I want to add. a lot of my friends flirt with her all the time. I'm in high school by the way. when I see her in the hallways, I always see atleast one of my friends flirting with her, trying to tickle her and stuff like that. It's those kind of things that kinda makes it a little harder. I just try to look away because I don't want to get upset for my classes. if you guys have any advice for that kind of thing, let me know. thanks.
2006-12-09 13:56:15 · update #1
Don't let her know that you are upset by it, that is the worst thing you could do! Find something to fill your time that will keep your mind off of it! When I broke up with my finance', I moved.....I got a new job, got to go out with the girls more, and never had to worry about someone else....I had time to concentrate on me!!!! It is a great feeling once you know you are over it, and trust me, you will get there, it just seems hard right now!
2006-12-09 13:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by Miss MotoX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get over relationships when you are able to look back on them and realize that it was for the best that you broke up. I guess you're not at that point yet. Best to have fun being single right now then look onto the past that's full of painful memories. Oh yeah, i don't believe you can actually stay friends with your ex girlfriend. That's too awkward. Just try to say hi once in awhile but don't try to be best friends.
2006-12-09 21:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Iileen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I am a girl but here is what I would do if I were you... Try some casual conversation at first and then work up from there. If you like another girl then maybe u will get over your ex easier. If all else fails, turn to chocolate and ice cream.
2006-12-09 21:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by ~HockeyChik~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
few thing defintely take up a hobby I perfer some sort of working out martial arts what not, it takes your mind off anything. 2nd thing date as many people as you can ... dont sleep with them just date them you need to see first hand there are others out there... another thing is get a whole buch of your friends together and go out....
I always heard the best way to get over someone is to get under someone
2006-12-09 21:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to be friends...bad play book. Get on your own. Hang with the guys and date other girls. Stop trying to get her back. Let it go...Be strong and brave.
2006-12-09 21:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋