how can i forget him when he became a part of my life..last night, i told him, i will be leaving hm because im a nobody now in his life because he courts to another girl..bbut he told me NO...stay with me...and for me, it really hurts staying with him, but he courts a girl. we loved each other so much but maybe it really has to end..but i always think of him24/7...i dream of him everynight...i really dont wanna loose him but it hurts for me the fact that he courts another girl...what will i do?...forget about him and move on or something else that will make him happy?
2006-12-09 13:44:47 · 14 answers · asked by -BabyGhUrL- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gurl just be real wit ur self if u luv him try to work it out and if u do not forget it and move on!!!!!
2006-12-09 13:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he engaged or truely married? Has he taken the vows? If he is just engaged, tell him it's not going to work unless he choses to marry you instead, you can't go on your life like this. He is going to use you for company by playing with your heart and YET have kids with another girl? I think not. For if a man is stupid enough to let a great lady such as yourself go...then be smart enough to let him. You DON'T deserve him. Do what is best. He has to listen to his heart. If he is married, tell him that you are not going to be the girl on the side for the rest of his life. You have a life too, and if it's not with him in marriage, there is no reason to be confined to him.
If you want to talk or ask further questions, I am always here:
joyce_travieza@yahoo.com
2006-12-09 13:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is courting another girl...you should make an ultimatum. Tell him , either you or this girl. If he choose the girl-please move on. Cut him out totally from ur life. No contact, no meeting him at all. Its hurt, its painful..but the pain will subsidise and you will meet someone better and deserve you more than this guy-trust me.
Hugs
2006-12-09 13:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him block all ways for him to contact you if he knows were u live stay with a friend or ur parents, if living with parents tell ur dad he's stalkin you trust me he wont come around with an angry papa. and dont listen to slow or sad music and dont watch the sad sappy love movies stick with comedy and up beat music.. country doesnt count! trust me it works it still takes some time but dont give in stay away because the longer you wait the harder it gets
2006-12-09 13:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by elf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to forget him. we all have someone or another who is always in our hearts but this doesn't mean you cannot move forward. Give it some time while you set your sights on new people/things in your life. Time will tell for you!
2006-12-09 13:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard honey when you become someone else in his life it is pretty obvious that he does not feel the same and him being first to you in your life is just a nother reason he obviously does not feel the same. You are his comfort and she is probobly his pleasure so do yourself a favor and leave him .Good Luck.
2006-12-09 13:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by cokeguitarcutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all why are you trying to make him happy? you should be worring about yourself. make yourself happy and everyone else around you will be happy then. second if he makes you second guess yourself then you don't need him. does he make you feel special, then you need to step back and ask some questions to help you and only you not him
2006-12-09 13:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very hard to let go of the one you love... believe me! look inside you heart for this one, i trust that you will do the RIght Thing, if you know what i mean. if you're not his all, why be anything to him
Juggiejones OUT
2006-12-09 13:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by Shalyn V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was another girl you need to move on and find some one else he is not worth it
2006-12-09 13:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He want you and her and if you are that dumb to let him have it his way then stay with him and be hurt and if you are smart you will let him go, and deal with the pain,which time will heal.And for the record ......HE DONT LOVE YOU,if he did he would not hurt you in this way,he want to keep you for conviency.So you need to figure out if you are smart or dumb. hummm...........................
2006-12-09 14:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by ellie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋