So I have this guy that I casually have sex with. Im the one that asks when I need it and he always needs it as well and says yes. But yesterday we were supposed to get together and didnt cuz he ended up being busy so he says. So I decided to call him and ask him do you want to keep doing things like being friends w/ benefits he told me yes he does not to think that he doesnt just he got really busy yesterday. That we are still good and doesnt want to give up the sex. So then why doesnt he ask for it then as well. Anyways do guys care if the girl is the one asking for it?
2006-12-09 13:41:57 · 21 answers · asked by Aby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has asked for it before but now I ask for it more
2006-12-09 14:23:12 · update #1
No i don't think that we mind if the girl ask to have sex , but it should be a thing that comes from both ways .. you want to tell me he never even ones asked for it .. ?? , thats very strange if its the case , maybe you ask on such a regular basis that he don't get a chance to ask , or he know you so well that he knows when you are going to ask for it .. and that hes fine with it that way .. hope you find the answer to your Q .. have a good day and keep well ..
2006-12-09 13:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First to answer your question, no, the majority of guys out there could care a less who asks they just want it and probably even like it if she initiates it. But I am probably the wrong guy to answer because I believe in the confines of marriage and being monogamous, which is great knowing your partner is faithful to you through everything.
2006-12-09 21:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by steptoejosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm one of those guys who gets tired of sex with the same person too many times. He might be trying to not hurt your feelings by saying that he wants to continue with the perks.
If I were you, I'd wait for him to make the next move.
2006-12-09 21:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by Evan T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's easier for the girl to ask: guys generally never turn down the opportunity. The risk of rejection is much bigger for the guy.
2006-12-09 21:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, if I was your friend I would think that you were a cheap whore, easy pickin's, and not worth the respect.
And if I were you, I'd get checked for VD. Then I would try to clean up my life.
2006-12-09 21:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 things.... He isnt intrested in you, he would ask if he was trust me I know.... 2 He is sleeping with someone else as well. And if you really ust wanted to be f buddies you wouldnt care if he was busy I think you like him
2006-12-09 21:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might have to tell him directly that he can ask, It might be as simple as he dose not want to lose you as a F.W.A.B and is afraid that if he dose ask that you might think he thinks your a ..... you know, any what who, just tell him he can ask any time and that you will not be offend, it's that simple.
2006-12-09 21:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by matt v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is only about physical pleasure, then why do you need him involved? get yourself a vibrator and some jelly and play with yourself.. it will feel just as good, plus you won't have to worry about getting diseases from him, nor will you have to worry about his busy schedule..
2006-12-09 21:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably aren't the only one he's getting it from. That's why he doesn't care if he gets it from you.... but if you ask he's willing.
You are setting yourself up for STDs and other issues. The guy is not a boyfriend... just a booty call.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-09 21:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I believe that he only is playing. It is comfortable to have a woman to disposition, but without any commitment. I believe that you must move away and there looks a person who loves and respects you
2006-12-09 21:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋