ok so my best friend (girl) is going out with my other best friend (guy) and ( ok i'm going to make random names for this. girl best friend is Lucy and guy best friend is... jim.) Lucy knows that i like jim too, and like i'm okay with it, sort of- but- the thing is like he flirts with me alot, and lucy notices it too and thinks he's not liking her anymore, and like... that would be weird if i went out with him... and then like would it be weird when they break up, and we're all just best friends again? we both just don't know what to do. stupid jim... i wish no one ever liked anyone. but what do you think we all should do about the whole situation?? please give some good answers... i'm getting sick of all this
2006-12-09
13:40:34
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and then if they break up, it'll be akward between them, and ... yeah... it's hard to move on, too...
2006-12-09
13:44:29 ·
update #1
so if we're all just friends again, you don't think it'll be akward or weird? or what... sorry i probably sounds really stupid right now...
2006-12-09
13:50:20 ·
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He's dating someone else. Move on and stop driving yourself nuts with all those "what if" scenarios.
2006-12-09 13:43:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Yeah your right this Is always going to cause drama now. Even If you would've hooked up with "jim" first this would've caused "lucy" to feel how you feel now. The best thing to do Is sit everybody down and talk about It If lucy see what you see concerning the flirting, you two atleast agree on something so thats a start you can build from there but this situation Is definitely going to blow up If she breaks up with him and you try to date him. There are way too many rules to friendship and lucy already stepped over the line with them. Try to work It out because when the he say she say start later everybody gets upset and the friendships are over.
2006-12-09 13:56:17
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answered by passion 3
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Well I think you should confront jim.I know there is guys that are like that. I have a couple of guy friends that do that. When they were going out with my friends the would flirt with me and my sister. Of course my friends would get mad but as everyone knows lif is short live it to the fullest, I you guys go out and then brake up, ask him before if you guys can still be friends. With your friend ask her if it is ok. Make sure that she won't be mad if you guys do go out.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
2006-12-09 14:05:11
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answered by Anonymous
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ok if you liked him first who cares date him but chances if hes tryign to flirt with you what if when you guys dated he did the same to you i would take your friend (lucy) and go look for new boyfriends so things can just get normal and you guys can all be friends again dating friends is weird believe me
2006-12-09 13:47:29
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answered by Anonymous
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Have a 3 some? Seriously if you only like him as a friend, why do you care if they date? If flirting is in his nature, she's going to have to accept that as a part of him, and you are not obligated to act on it.
2006-12-09 13:45:56
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answered by nursesr4evr 7
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No - it incredibly is the Galactic alignment. The sunlight will "look" to upward thrust from the midsection of the Milky way - think to be on or around 12/21/12 - happens each 36,000 years, coincides with the top of the Mayan calendar. communicate of magnetic poles probable reversing, all that.
2016-10-05 02:49:13
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answered by ? 4
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wow stupid school drama... tell the guy to fu*k off and be a good friend... sounds pretty simple its sort of sad you couldnt think of that one
2006-12-09 13:45:39
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answered by elf 2
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don't stop loving him, cause he'll love you in about ten, nine, EIGHT days, and yes, i know the future. and u are going to call me CRAZY after this, i know it, i KNOW IT. lol.
so, love him more, and make him dump her, now!!!!
jk
2006-12-09 14:21:26
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answered by ellen 2
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ok, this is "lucy" or amber, and...well.....I DID NOT CROSS THE LINE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!
and i thought he still liked ellen then, so YOU STUPID ANSWERERS CAN'T SAY ANYTHING BAD ABOUT ME.
:P
2006-12-10 09:28:14
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answered by [L E A N N E] 1
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do what your heart says
2006-12-09 13:45:02
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answered by Anonymous
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