i really like her and i always say hi to her in the halls at school and she always gives me this smile that is just so beautiful and i just wanna know how to go about confronting her about the situation?
2006-12-09 13:35:44 · 19 answers · asked by adidasfan90210 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gurls like guys who treat them good without seeming desperate. we also love guys who master skill in one particular way, like a guy who is really good in playing piano, or doing math, or painting, or even driving. it makes u guys look hot and sexy.
try to improve your ability in one particular subject and behave self confidencely..
2006-12-09 13:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by purple_lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be a friend, Care about her, not what you can get from her.
There is no situation that needs confronting. You look, she looks, you smile, she smiles. Sounds like you have smiles in common. Not a situation, Yet.
Next step, Hi, I'm _______. Would you like to ______sometime.
Study together, join in an outing with my family, attend a dance, game or other school function. All would be acceptable as an opening question, for a first friendship outing, or date. Be prepared to hear No. She may have any number of reasons. Parents rules, boyfriend, religous beliefs, etc.. If you are prepared for no, your ready to ask the question. If she says no, it's not as much of a disappointment, If she says yes you get more than you expected. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you do nothing, you'll get nothing. If you ask, you may lose a smile, but you may also gain a friend, even if the dating thing doesn't work out. Either way, you'll know you tried.
2006-12-09 14:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by Bob L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't try to impress her. Just be yourself and find a topic you both enjoy. Then talk about it. Ease into the subject about liking her aftre you see how it's going with keeping good conversation.
2006-12-09 13:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by spag 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you have any classes with her, just talk to her. u know, make jokes and all of that stuff. if you just see ehr i nthe halls, then walk with her to class sometimes, not all the time, because then it shows the desperateness. but doing it once in a while is good.
2006-12-09 13:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by ascanio91 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just strike up a conversation with her. next time you see her, talk about something ya'll have in common (like a teacher, a project, whatever-- it can be the stupidest thing ever). then you'll be able to have a friendly relationship with her, and if it keeps progressing, you can ask her out. good luck!
2006-12-09 13:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by rachel :) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
May be she´s waiting for you to ask first! go ahead! don´t be afraid! Invite het to go to the movies or to see any sport match. come on!!! If you do not hurry someone else will, remember this!!
2006-12-09 13:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by monvana 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
next time she smiles just say casually do you want to meet up / go out / go to lunch with me ? you have gone past the eye contact stage now she knows you like her she obviously likes you so do it stop wasting time
2006-12-09 13:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Impress her with what you have, don't try to impress her with what you don't have! (She'll find out, and it will make it nearly impossible for you later!) Don't worry, what you possess is probably more than enough, just show her your true self!
2006-12-09 13:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just talk to her. get to know her a little more. found out if she has a boyfriend or not. If not than ask her out to the movies or something.
2006-12-09 13:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by timeoutll 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be nice and sweet to her those guys that think teasing her or acting all tough around will impress her get real old real quick
2006-12-09 13:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋