If you have a guy that you casually get together with every once an awhile, do guys care if the girl is the one always making the call?
2006-12-09 13:30:58 · 27 answers · asked by Cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If they let you make the call then you should consider their peronallities. they could just be favorable of alonness. Or lazy. Or nerds. Any way they probably just want a girl as a friend. if you leave them alone for a while you will find out. If they don't respond, they don't care. If they do respond they do care. Just test it. If they don't care, just look at others in your social class and it should be easy to make more friends (unless you are like antisocial cave person)
2006-12-09 13:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by that guy with the face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, most guys are a bit primative in that they like to do the pursuing. If this guy is just a friend and things are only casual, then it really shouldn't matter if you call. If, however, you actually like this person, back off and let him pursue you.
2006-12-09 21:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by wendy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not really, I should rephrase that, it depends on the type of guy / girl, But for the most part everyone has a F.W.A.B (Friend With A Benefit) Most of the time you can tell if a guy cares or not.
2006-12-09 21:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by matt v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a girl who called me up to hang out and usually we ended up in bed, she had a bf so it was clear that i wouldnt be the one to call her, she wasnt into the exclusive thing i guess, but didnt want to give him up. I was the one who cared about it, and fell for her, and had to quit seeing her even casually.
2006-12-09 21:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how they feel about the girl.. this girl I was dating in high school called me on the phone while she was having another guy over because she was trying to make me jealous, and so I pretended to be all jealous and I was like "put him on the phone!" like I was going to cuss him out or something, so when she put him on the phone I was like "she's a brat! could you tickle her for me?" so then he was like "okay" and then I heard her squealing in the background.. but yeah, I didn't see us having a long term relationship, so I didn't care that she had another guy over anyway.. if my wife did that it'd be a different story..
2006-12-09 21:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never call a guy for casual anything!
2006-12-09 21:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it depends on if the guy likes the girl or if the girl likes the guy. If so then yes. If not then no.
2006-12-09 21:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by Tempest6768 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. The respect it and it makes you a better person. Keep up the good work.
2006-12-09 21:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by spag 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope never I perfer the girl to call it means that she cares
2006-12-09 21:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys care but if a guy isn't talking to u hes a jerk
2006-12-09 21:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋