ran over him, he going to live but she trying to stop me from seeing him in the hosiptal, or hear how i'm donig. what should i do?
2006-12-09 13:28:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A bus ran over your boyfriend?? Oh my! Well, if your bf is a minor (under 18) then she is the boss. If he is over 18 then its not up to her to say you can or cannot see him in the hospital.
2006-12-09 13:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by divinephi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm sorry. Try to get in to visit him with another one of his friends that she likes. Whatever you do, keep your visits short (20 minutes is usually good), and don't upset him. He needs his strength to recover.
I know it doesn't sound like much, but girlfriends aren't family members, and it can get intense when someone's in the hospital. My 17 year old son just went through something very similar, and my ex and his wife let his GF spend almost all day, every day at the hospital (this was summer). I thought it was too much, too intense. There were lots of "I love yous" exchanged.
Well, 2 months later he started to feel smothered with expectations and broke up with her. He was on morphine when he said a lot of that stuff. Meant it at the time, but you know, not the best situation to be in.
Anyway, just pay regular visits like a friend and wait until he's out. Be very respectful to mom. And I hope it works out for you both.
2006-12-09 13:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop being selfish and if she loved her son she would realize you guys love eachother and that her son loves you and he would want to see you. How old are you guys ? cuz she needs to stop interfearing between your relationship maybe you just need to sit down ask her out for lunch so you guys can talk (just you two) tell her why you guys argue because when you care about someone thats just what you do if you didnt get upset with them or jealous etc. then that would mean you dont care. Be nice and respectful to her and tell her now since this has happened to your boyfriend you realized how much you love him and you want to treat him good and this made you think about how things have been going and you want to make it work and would like her to approve of you two. good luck
2006-12-09 13:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her over tea and tell her sweet. Its not your fault he get run over by bus& you both always fight& make it up w him again. Tell his mom that every couple fight;it is normal. And tell her that you really loves her son no matter what happens; she will be touched.
Maybe she has another issue too, just ask her.
2006-12-09 13:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to figure out whats going on with you guys and you either need to stop fighting or fight real good once and quit the childish everyday arguments seems like ur wasting a lot of time. u need to figure out if this person is worth it and if u care about him or do u just want to stick around and make his mom angry...
2006-12-09 13:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first im sorry what happend to your boyfriend.
well his mom needs to get the fact that your his girlfriend and you care for him.
i agree just go when shes not at the hospital<3
2006-12-09 13:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by t.m0n3y$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be respectful and dont go see him. Why stay together if you fight all the time.....sounds like mom knows best
2006-12-09 13:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh! I am sorry in what a position you are in! But it is not his mother's choice of who gets to see him or not. If he wants to see you, then screw the mother! He's the one in bed with IVs and all. If he doesn't want to see you, i'm sorry. But who said the mother had to make the choices?
2006-12-09 13:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, Did you run him over or the Bus? I can't read your question....
I'd give up. Find someone else.
2006-12-09 13:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by the_fallen_broken_angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should demand to see ur bf every 1 fights u just have to get mad at somethings
2006-12-09 13:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by LuvTheBigGame18 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋