last night my boyfriend told me to meet him for dinner. but he said he would be a bit late because the guy that was suppose to come after him wasnt there yet. turns out he was an hour late and he brough another person to dinner. and when at dinner all he was worried about was getting the guy drunk. what do i do?
2006-12-09 13:27:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this isnt the first time either. a few months ago he was 2 hours late for picking me up. and hes always 30-45 mintes late whenver he sets a certin time...
2006-12-09 13:29:24 · update #1
dumb that f*ggot. u deserve somebody that actually cares about u and makes u his first priority.
2006-12-09 13:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by 5ive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look for a pattern of behavior. This one incident appears selfish and uncaring but if this is very rare behavior, just let it go. But, if this is a pattern, you need to start to recognize that this is part of his character. If he is a special guy, don't turn him off by over reacting to this one dinner. If he does this a lot, it is time to be honest with yourself about moving in another direction instead of getting in deeper with this person.
2006-12-09 21:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by mark3mcl2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only one thing you can do... tell him how much it bothers you, and take it from there... he may not know he's annoying you so much... he may also not have any idea that it's hard to have a good time when you've been waiting for him for the better part of an hour...you shouldnt have to suffer in silence, and you shouldnt dump him without giving him a chance to fix the problem
2006-12-09 21:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by decman00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it is unacceptable to be late and you will NOT tolerate it again. Let him know that it is extremely disrespectful to you and that you will NOT continue in a relationship in which he feels he can openly disrespect you in front of one of his friends. I wouldn't call him for a while after you tell him this just to get the point across.
2006-12-09 21:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by spag 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a CAD! Write the guy off.
Sue
2006-12-09 21:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing 2 do is talk 2 him if he truely cares 4 u he'll understand and if he don't dump his *** and find urself a new MAN!!
2006-12-09 21:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by *islandchick* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ever tell him about it?? if not tell him about it because he may not know it bothers you. if he still does that than you should find another boyfriend because that is just like lying and you deserve better.
2006-12-09 21:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by checkitouttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a important appointment with him and break it real bad....like don't show up at all.
2006-12-09 21:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another boyfriend. he sounds like he is cheating. he is not interested and considerate of you.
2006-12-09 21:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by intelligent80000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a better time with his friend!
2006-12-09 21:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋