you had a mate and had been dating for a long time. Then you go out somewhere with your freinds and see him kissing and hugging another girl. This guy supposly says he loves you but then you see him in public cheating on you. You know with all your heart that he loved you and had been faithful to you. SoI am asking this question for your comments and anything else. Thanks.
2006-12-09 13:25:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, obviously he didnt love you enough to not cheat on you, and if you are planning on staying with him......BAD MOVE!!! If he did it once, he will do it again. Cheating gets easier everytime it is done...the person only feels the guilt of what happened the first time...you should call him out on his actions and see what he says. Most likely he will lie to you, and do you really want to be with someone who cheats AND lies to you?????? Be the bigger person here and let him go............
2006-12-09 13:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Miss MotoX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him right then and there and let him know that i seen his cheating a**. if u don't he will deny it and u would feel trapped and u wouldn't really know what to do cause he would play mind games with u. Than i would realize how good of a woman i am and know that time waits for no man or woman, and i would work on healing my broken heart and set standards and rules and all the things we need in deciding on be with someone else. Than one day when i am not looking a handsome guy with all my qualities will appear and he would be mine.
but that would be some hurting stuff. i would also be ready to fight. i guess if i am having problems in a realationship i always wear comfortable boots or shoes, get it. oh and u are woman u are beautiful so hold that head up and know that it is his loss. now go beautify urself and be pammpered well and be happy single. let him know that u are happy w/o him. and speak but just as u would speak to a cousin that u haven't seen in a while.
Now go.
2006-12-09 21:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by kimmi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have walked up the the creep and thrown a drink in his cheating face. Of course I always was one for the direct approach.
2006-12-09 21:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and ***** slap him
say "who is she"
he'll stuble all over him self trying to cover up but it wont work
and the other one might leave too
1point for women 0 for the men
ca chou
idk jus a thought
2006-12-09 21:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by natrual flirt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say to the other girl why the **** u kissing my man . and pull out her weave if she has any . then i would go and slap the guy because he cheated on me.
2006-12-09 21:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd dump him. I'd be angry at myself becasue I trusted him and he betrayed me. And that has happened to me and I dumped his sorry a**.
2006-12-09 21:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by punkrocker490 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you saw and see what he says.
2006-12-09 22:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by funwithu_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a player i would adress the issue to him and if hes a a** ABOUT IT DUMP HIM.
2006-12-09 21:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by aggie_in_pa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him u like another guy, and he will be surprised.
2006-12-09 21:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by blingding 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋