I see so many people in my lifetime that are in thier late 30's, 40's and 50's that are still dating and havent even come close to finding that one person what was meant for them. It scares me as a young, single woman that ill end up like that. alone at that age. im not saying that its the most horrible thing in the world, so please dont focus on that......but humans are built to love and find love and search for the ever-lasting love. is it that only a certain number of us in the world actually find that person??
2006-12-09 13:25:19 · 5 answers · asked by nonyerbusiness 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's sad and it's unfair, but it's reality.. i'm 32. i have had a total of 3 girlfriends.. each relationship lasted shorter than 4 months.. i've only had a small handful of other dating experiences..
it's been a lonely life for me and i wonder if i will ever have any luck at all in the future.
i've learned to accept my singleness and focus on other things in life that i have more control over. going back to finish school, trying to find a decent job, focusing on my physical health, building better relationships with my family and friends.. reaching out and meeting new friends.. that's all i can do..
try to stay positive and keep a smile on your face.. if your soulmate really is out there, you want him to see you with a smile when you meet for the first time!
2006-12-09 13:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gracie you know that I am 48yrs old man still not found an perfect match for myself yet? well what I'd do is wait until the right
one comes for me and usaly none because some times alot
of girls have a bf all ready or married too ! lets talk soon
God Bless & Happy Holidays
2006-12-09 21:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is always more then one person for us. if we can find only one then we will be in love. but if we dont then are single. just dont think about finding soulmate lower yourstanders and find a great guy who will love u. then when u do u can turn him into your soulmate
2006-12-09 21:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you think about it the odds, in finding your soul mate are 1 / 40 000 000 000
you will never find your soul mater but you will find some that is so darn close you think it is and there are lots of them so keep your head up and just give it time.
2006-12-09 21:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by dwickleworth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like another person corrupted by fiction.
2006-12-09 21:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋