I'm in my 20s he's 44, I'm almost out of school(in april). I want to ask him out to coffee or something. Should I do it now or wait until graduation?
2006-12-09 13:22:33 · 13 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its 17 year difference...i'm 27.
2006-12-09 13:27:16 · update #1
its 17 year difference...i'm 27.
2006-12-09 13:27:17 · update #2
I'm not 20....
I'm not looking for sex w/ an older man. I have become great friends with him and I've fallen for him.
2006-12-09 13:29:53 · update #3
It depends on your existing relationship.
1. If you barely know him, that could pose as a problem because it would seem out of the blue.
2. If you are already slightly personal (friends or in that range) then consider asking him offhandedly, belittling the importance to suggest a gesture of friendship.
Also consider his relationship with other students. Does he like to shy away from personal discussions with them? Would it affect your grades/ graduation?
It is probably best to work on a pre-existing relationship before proceeding outside of school.
2006-12-10 17:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by delovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is single just catch him at a time when there is only the two of you. I think you are just chasing sex with an older guy which is ok at 20. So don't plan any long term relationships as they rarely work out wit that kind of age difference.
2006-12-09 21:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by hunter f 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think u should wait till graduation. Tats cool that you dont care about the age, a lot of people do, but age is jus a number for me.
2006-12-09 21:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait till graduation, 'cause i think there's a law against student/teacher relationships in college
2006-12-09 21:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by punkrocker490 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well chances are that he isnt going to say ok. I mean he is like 24 years older then you!
2006-12-09 21:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just come outright and tell him you have the "HOTS" for him and would he be interested. You will find out quick where he stands.
2006-12-09 21:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Teesip 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SImple infactuation. It's not uncommon. Recognize it and move on. Find yourself a guy to go out with more along your age.
2006-12-09 21:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by spag 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Aftre graduation, he can get fired if he starts dating you now.
2006-12-09 21:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by Joy M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait til after u graduation.....tho that is a big age gap
2006-12-09 21:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by mcrmy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong with u ? he 's 44 years old and is old enough to be your father or granfather. thats just nasty.
2006-12-09 21:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋