I believe I will find that right guy out there for me, and he is out there somewhere and he is waiting for me too. I know that I will go through guys, and date them and then dump them. I also believe that the guy needs to ask you out, and he needs to make the first move, unless he is one of those, really shy guys. I do believe tradition is important, and I believe in it. Am I to old fashioned? Am I being to traditional? I just think things should happen this way. Give me your input.
And can you answer this other question?
I like this guy, he is sweet. So, I am playing hard to get and I am doing some little flirting things, unlike my friend who I will talk about later, like looking at him and looking away and smiling. So far, it is working quite well. But as I was talking about my friend she like used to be obssesed with him! She said she loved him, I doubt it though, it was not love, it was obsession with something she could not have. Anyways, I told her I like him.
2006-12-09 13:21:52 · 25 answers · asked by Juice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, so even though I told her that I liked him and I have liked him since she was dating another guy (who she belongs with) and she keeps flirting with him! She asks for piggy back rides, and the other day we were playing truth or dare and someone dared him to kiss someone (he could choose) and he did not want to kiss anyone (and I have my own rules like no kissy kissy goo goo stuff (cause I don't play that way)) and he was not going to kiss anyone and so my "best friend" went over there and pointed to her own cheek! and this in our hood, means kiss me. She is like my best friend, and this is the only bad thing about her! what do I do! and yes, he did kiss her! then she had the audasity (or however you spell it) to say he had soft lips! what do I do!!!
2006-12-09 13:27:01 · update #1
and yes, he knows I like him and he said he somewhat likes me too, and it is not to hard to get.
2006-12-09 13:30:41 · update #2
She has liked everyone in my neighborhood!!! and flirts with everyone!
2006-12-09 13:33:52 · update #3
I am an old fashion girl myself, i am an romantic and passionate person also...i like the thought of how it was back then to be now..i mean why not? it could work still.
everyone has their opinions in how they want to be when they grow up or how they see their futures...their is nothing wrong with it.
you have the right to dream this all you want..don't let others tell you its foolish or fairy tale like...you just have an imagintion and its good..i do too...i don't listen to anyone tell me what my dreams are to be foolish or other wise...they just don't understand which is okay but they shouldn't be passing judgement either..
and with this guy...i think you are right with her being obsessed..just keep doing what you are with him..don't worry about her...i mean obviously he likes what your doing...so keep it up...he will make the decision if he wants to be with you or not...its not up to her...so good luck with him.
2006-12-09 13:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend, I must say this first: even though she believes she loves him, why do you believe it is obsession? Has she dated him before?
As for your very own fairytale, I believe karma has to do with it. You are not too old fashioned. Just be at the right place at the right time. Chances are, you are not going to find your true love dancing at a night club drunk with 2 other girls. If you want an old fashioned man, perhaps going to a church or a small town would be good. Of course, you should go to church mainly for the sake of being good to God. Write down some qualities you'd like in a guy, and then try to find a place and time that you think that particular type of man would be.
By the way, I do agree with the answer of
Yggdrasil Mithos Symphonia, but I was also wondering...did you friend really like him before you? Because if she did...you should probably lay off...definitely not fairytale ish...and the way you talk about her in the question...look, if she loved him before you did that would'nt be a wise thing to be cruel to her...don't act like a wicked stepsister
2006-12-09 21:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to believe in fairy tales. There are still a lot of guys out there who believe in the same things, so don't give up. As for your second question, regardless of how you believe your friend really felt about this guy, if she says she loved him, it's a clear sign to stay away. If you truly believe that you have a lot of frogs to kiss before you get to your prince, find a frog your friend hasn't already crushed on. Friends last so much longer, and are so much more important.
2006-12-09 21:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by lclaws13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An attempt at an answer to your first question:
No, you aren't, in my opinion, being to "fairy tale-ish". You just really want to find the "right guy". What's wrong with someone wanting to find someone they can stand to be around and actually love...
And your second question:
She is either jealous, horny, or jealous. Jealous probably because you're doing more and have a better chance.
Good luck!
2006-12-09 21:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by that one guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, fairy tale princess don't sleep around. They wait for the right guy.
Secondly a fairy tale princess wouldn't go after someone her friend liked, just a wicked step-sister, even if it was obsession
Third, Fairy tale princesses don't play hard to get. They ARE hard to get!!!
Clearly, Disney hasn't taught you very well.
2006-12-09 21:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not old fashioned. No, depending on your requiresments, you're not being fairy tale ish as tall. IS it possible the right one for you, is lurking here in ansswers? Is it possible he's not where you are? Is it possible you found him already, and rejected him and relocated, because you didn't realize ordidn't want to admit to youself. Many possibilities, butyou're not being Too fairy taleish.
2006-12-09 21:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that ur right u will find the perfect guy for u. U just gotta be able to face a few heartbreaks on the way
2006-12-09 21:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by mmmhmmm_oic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel the same way you do. I thought I had found the guy. We married, had a son and many years together. Now after 32 years he has decided we are just firends.
2006-12-09 21:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by raredawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's fine to want a fairy-tale ending but i dont think it will matter how it started once you find someone you love and if you plan on staying together to death than that's great for you.. go for it! And about your friend.. if she is a good friend she will accept you liking someone she used to like... i mean she didnt even date him.
2006-12-09 21:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by Carol May 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
playing hard to get may lead him to lose interest in you.. i'd stop playing games and be honest about your feelings towards him.
tradition is good. nothing wrong with wanting the guy to make the first move.. but if he's too shy, then you may never get what you want, so you may have to do the asking.
2006-12-09 21:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋