Im going out with this guy and Friday when i was on the bus, this other guy wanted to go out with me! I wanted to go out with this guy on the bus 2, but i called my boyfriend after school and i told him everything, trying to explain to him that a guy that i liked wanted to go out with me, I dont know what to do, im sooo stressed out about this! My boyfriend is not answering my calls anymore! I dont know if he mad at me or what! I dont know who i should go out with!!!!! What would you do!!!?
2006-12-09 13:18:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a boyfriend and you want to go out with another guy?And you told your boyfriend but you cant understand why he's upset and wont take your calls??
How old are you?
2006-12-09 13:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't like your boyfriend enough to keep from staying. If you don't like some one you shouldn't keep a relationship with them.. of coarse he is mad. How would you feel if he called you and told you that he liked someone else? You should leave your boy Friend and go for the other guy. I don't know why you want to stay with some one you clearly don't like. Be honest and keep people in the loop so that you do not hurt them so much. Also, next time just tell the person you are with that it is not working out. Don't tell them you want to see someone else and you know who it is. Just be nice and tell him you need some time for you self. That way you don't hurt him as much and you still keep him as a friend.
2006-12-09 21:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by JV 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to figure out who means more to you. If your boyfriend really means alot then try to repair the relationship, if not then break up with him and go out with the new guy on the bus.
2006-12-09 21:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by ~HockeyChik~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's funny. Don't you love your boyfriend? You don't know who should you go out with? Do you want more than one boyfriend? If yes, I'd say the one on the bus.
2006-12-09 21:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sure blew that one. If you had a boyfriend, why were you even thinking about going out with someone else? Your boyfriend is right to not want to speak with you. You need to go over there and beg for his forgiveness and let him know you will never act that way again. I hope you are ashamed of what you did here. You really screwed up.
2006-12-09 21:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by spag 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are young, you are lucky to be attracting guys, you should be meeting many boys and learning what they are all about. The important thing is that you are being totally honest about your feelings and your behavior. Don't start playing games and telling lies. You may hurt some guys with the truth but that tells you a lot about them. If you hurt people by lies and games, you learn nothing about them but you learn some bad things about yourself. Be true to yourself and keep telling the truth. It will all be OK if you do.
2006-12-09 21:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by mark3mcl2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who do you like more? Who do you fell happier and more comfortable around? If it is your old BF, talk to him at school. If you like the other guy, dump the other guy and go with him. I hope I helped.
2006-12-09 21:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with the guy that u really like.
2006-12-09 21:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with what you want, if you want to go out with the guy on the bus, then do it.
2006-12-09 21:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by Eragon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you seriously not sure if your boyfriend is mad at your or not? Oh how I miss the ignorant teen years.
2006-12-09 21:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by Tigerlillie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋