He is the first person I had sex with We have been going together for a year in a half. Everthing was perfect untill I spit out his baby. And then he started to cheat. At first I allowed him to then I got to my scences and realise that I didn't deserved what he was doing. And Now I moved on to somebody else, but I can't focus with him becuz I'm to busy focusing on my baby dady. Oh by the way he take care of the baby. But now he get all jealouse and want to beat every boy i talk to down. I think he loves me he just I don't know. One thing I do Know is that I can't be with him. I want to do something to make him change and respect me some rules or steps ya know well ladies what should I do
2006-12-09 13:14:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl, that ain't love!
the only one you should be worried about is your baby and you. That baby comes first! When the drama dies down and you decide to bring a guy into you and your baby's life... make sure its good for your baby to go through. All this stuff you got going on...and exposing to your baby is affecting him/her!
Fix you and your baby's life not you and exs life or you and new bf
but you and your baby!
2006-12-09 13:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are way too bossy
ideally the situation unfolds in a good way with no forcing
maybe jus think of that baby dady. Anyway you want him. Then he has to obey you and jus be perfect. Only real people mess up.
Who is he and is he paying child support? Also, maybe he could be anything you want him to be. AT least for awhile. Think what you want. I had a wife for 3 days once. It was kind of nice.
2006-12-09 13:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
15? Love, Sex, baby's? Either you are lying through your teeth, or your life is screwed up. If it is the later, then you need to finish school, get a job, and raise your child. Not worry about boys. If you feel you cannot do this, then look into adoption, your child (if there is one) deserves better than this.
2006-12-09 13:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh man, you must be in some deep crap.
Well, you can sue him, or talk to his parents with yours.
But, if he was a man, he would do the right thing and respect you and help take care of the child. But most importantly apologize! He did a wrong thing, and he should take responsibility. Tell him that.
2006-12-09 13:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by Soung 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
FIRST-
you have a BABY you life's is NOT about you any more (git that in your head) you have got to focus on your child, plz plz plz stop thinking about you!
SECOND-
for girls sex changes the way you think about the person you sleep w/ for men not so much, they don't feel the connection that girls do, most the time they fall in love after they have sex!
THIRD-
he cheated on you probably cuz you wear parent & it terned you off @ times it terned him off @ times, don't try to git this guy back hes not into his kid if your going to have a guy the first thing on your mind shouldn't be sex it's all about you kid... wouldn't you feel horrible if your kid got older & had the same thing that happened to you happen her/ him end up w/ a kid & have on1 to help w/ it, your life has GOT2 be about making shere that you don't let things like this happen to your kid!!! plz make it about your kid it's your duty! that kid IS your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
plz plz plz your life haz got to be about you kid no more guys, just for sex, if a guy asks you out you have to make sher he's a 100% GOOD, & if that cheat wants you back he really really needs to proov to you that he's sorry as he can be (DO NOT go E-Z on him) & that he's 100% detected to his kid!!!!!!!!
form: a 16 year old girl that knows alot!
2006-12-09 13:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by A Girl Going Down In Flames 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're 15 and had a baby. oh wow. he started cheating because he never loved you in the first place, he just wanted as s. then when things got serious he wanted to move on and thats why he cheated. your 15, guys aren't looking to fall in love. they are looking for p u s sy in as many girls as possible
2006-12-09 13:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by Kate 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you one of those 'back woods hillbillies'? What the heck are you think about? At fifteen years of age and having a child! Did your mother NOT have a talk to you about the 'birds & bees'? Sex is a great thing.........BUT not for those,such as yourself, who play UNSAFE.
I would suggest you return to school. If you are still there then how about proper sentences and grammar.
God help us. This is what poor parenting produces and THEY are the future of this country. If you think we are in bad times now, just watch the horizion. Prediction of worse time ahead. We can sent them to school, but we are unable to teach.
You 'think he loves me he just I don't know'. Respect is first in any relationship. Love may follow, if one is fortunate. How can you 'think' he loves you? He, nor you respect yourselves. You were just a piece of tail that was stupid.........THAT'S THE FACT!
Are your parents ready to raise your little bastard child, your 'love' baby, child out of wedlock? You have put the screws to life of this innocent baby. Are you proud of this?
Give thought to having a sterlization done when you give birth; that way you only have to worry about STDs while fornicating in the future.
2006-12-09 13:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by LifeRyder 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You do know that he could be arrested for rape of a minor, don't you? Why don't you wait until you are grown to have sex and fall in love, because at 15, you don't even know the meaning of the word!
2006-12-09 13:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by unsersmyboy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh. I am very sorry. You shouldn't have had sex until you were married. Maybe you should try to talk to him calmly. It was wrong of him to cheat but really you should try to find someone a lot better.
2006-12-09 13:19:31 · answer #9 · answered by supersillysmarty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope your sharing your wonderful story with the other teeny boppers here falling in love all over the place.
2006-12-09 13:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋