Me and my friend started going out today!! We both like each other alot but im worried that if we ever break up then we might never get along?!? HELP!!!
2006-12-09 13:08:37 · 15 answers · asked by Shelby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is pretty tough... I would say just take it easy, take your Time and see how it goes... Explain to each other, if this doesn't work out, being friends would be better and I'm sure he'll agree since you Guys have been Friends BEFORE you started going out! I would take it slow!
2006-12-09 13:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take it very slow to make sure it will work. You do not want to get intimate two quick and find out that you will not be going out any more. It will make it really awkward later on to be friends. Also make sure that you guys are on the same page all the time. If you start to think it will not work let him know right away. The worst thing to do is not keep the other person in the loop. If you leave him when he thinks every thing was going good it will really hurt him and he might not be able to see you as a friend again.
2006-12-09 21:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by JV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's true, if you break up, you might not ever get along,again. So don't break up, unless he's absolutely wrong for you. Even then, only break up if you want to, not because someone else (such as family) wants you to. Never do anything you don't want to.
2006-12-09 21:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already started in a good way as friends. You will both always have that connection as long as you both respect it and each other.
2006-12-09 21:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by Deana S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend and yourself if you are only friends and that is the way you both want it then only time will tell I do not think you are sure of him maybe find somebody else and you sound very young there is a full life ahead of you take it as it goes
2006-12-09 21:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by cvtm2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its best if u stay just friends..but thats a hard one cause at the same time its better to be friends first..talk to him always let him no whats on your mind maybe yall we staytogather good luck
2006-12-09 21:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by Joker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a risk your going to have to take. I am dating one someone who used to be one of my best friends; you either can go back to how things used to be, or you can't.
2006-12-09 21:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a talk with your friend, best time to do it! :o) if you are really good friends i doubt friendship will be affected, but if u do split up, it does need a little work to get back on track :o)
2006-12-09 21:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats happened to me before and when we broke up we didnt talk for a month but we are wicked good friends now
2006-12-09 21:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by Tic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
granted thats something you might have wanted to have considered before hand.
but
Now that you two are together...
don't let it go on too long with out further evaluating it.. or discussing it.
2006-12-09 21:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by eventuallyfitzgerald0205 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋