MY BF AND I HAVE BEEN GOING OUT FOR 4 YEARS I REALLY LOVE HIM AND HE LOVES ME THE OTHER DAY HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM BUT IM ONLY 15 HIS 16 I LOVE HIM AND I KNOW YOU HAVE TO BE 18 BUT OTHER PARNETS SAID WE COULD SO THAT OKEY. I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT DO YOU THANK? DONT SAY WERE TO YOUNG BECAUSE YOU CAN FALL IN LOVE AT ANY AGE YOU JUST GOT TO HAVE SOMEONE TRIP YOU FIRST.
2006-12-09 13:06:16 · 14 answers · asked by FrozenCyclone Xmen Rule 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel that if both your parents and his parents are okay with it then I think you should do what you gotta do. The only way to learn is from experience. This can be a good experience for you and what you choose to do as far as your future. If you really wanna do it then I say GO FOR IT!!!!
2006-12-09 13:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Black Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love him and he you. You may think you want to get married. Have you REALLY thought this over? Where are you going to live? Who is going to support you? Will he quit school to get a job, will the parents support you, will you go on welfare? Have you thought about if you have children at such a young age? How would you support a baby?
I know that if one of my kids had wanted to get married at 15, I would have had a fit. At 15 and 16 you are still kids! You are not adults. Get an education, get some job experience, grow up...then think about getting married.
I know this sounds hard, but I can even imagine my 15 year old grandson saying he wants to get married!
2006-12-09 21:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by grandmaL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say wait a while. You've got your whole life you can spend together, so why rush in? What is the rush? You can love someone and not be married to them. Why not deal with the rest of the world for now (work, school, friends) then once you've got that taken care, pledge yourselves.
2006-12-09 21:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by quietwater 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To even think about marriage at age 15 is dumb and unpractical. Fifteen year olds (and sixteen year olds) aren't fully matured. I'm sure you think you love this guy, but you haven't been exposed to different guys. Most statistics show that couples that get married that young get divorced quickly. Don't make a stupid mistake. It can change your life.
2006-12-09 21:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by WriterGirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MARRY HIM!!!(well of course you have to ask both of your parents) IF YOU REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER (and don't care if your futures are probably doomed to third-to-high class jobs and state colleges if any) BUT ALSO BE AWARE THAT PEOPLE CHANGE A LOT AND CONSIDER everything OR YOU WILL CERTAINLY END UP IN MORE PAIN THAN HAPPINESS.
2006-12-09 21:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by that guy with the face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still have another 3 years to think about things, don't rush into it; you only get one first husband, make sure you want to go through with it first!
2006-12-09 21:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in some Southern States you can get hitched at 12.
2006-12-09 21:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep dating him until your eighteen, and then marry him. You should be happy you found the "one", and you don't want to rush to getting married. And then have your parents go crazy, just keep dating him and have more memories.
2006-12-09 22:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by Summerbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are to young to be thanking about that there will be others besides him trust me you will fall in love more then one time have fun take youre time and just have fun and protect youre self
2006-12-09 21:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your name tells me u know absolutely nothing about anything.. no u shouldnt get married.. ur both too young
2006-12-09 21:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Bobby D - The Angels Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋