well my ex broke up with me yesterday via im while i was at school. so today is the first day so what sould i do today and tomorrow and the day after?
2006-12-09 12:52:50 · 14 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Except the fact that your single, enjoy it, and start focusing on you! Do things for yourself that make you happy!
2006-12-09 13:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's Not Much You Can Do To Get Over This Girl, Especially If She Was Really Special To You. Don't Lie To Yourself And Others And Say She Was 'No One' And That She Was Ugly Anyway. Take Some Time To Heal, And Then Take The Advice Above And Go Find Someone New..Happy Searching!
2006-12-09 12:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by ILY♥!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things. (1) Don't be afraid to grieve and be sad for a bit. For a guy this might mean crying quietly alone in the dark so no one can hear. If you can manage to do it in daylight, with ice cream, in front of a movie, and have your mother give you sympathy, this would be better. (2) When you get tempted to get back together with her, remind yourself of her faults. Over and over again. She's not perfect, she's definitely got faults, even if the biggest one is that she can't see what a great guy you are. Besides, she broke up with you over IM.... how spineless is that, geez! I'd lose respect for someone like that in two seconds. Then (3) get out there and start flirting with someone new. It will pep you up. It might also make her come back to you, but resist!
2006-12-09 12:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, what you should do is if she comes by you wanting to see hi walk away. Do this for at least 2 week and most 4 weeks. Need more help make a post.
2006-12-09 12:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by hot gal101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just do as many fun things as possible to keep yourself from getting sad or depressed. Breakups are hard to deal with so you need to keep your mind off everything by going out with your friends and having a good time.
2006-12-09 12:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by Chris C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I hate that idea. Who made it acceptable to end a relationship via I'm? Anyway, Don't sweat it - he's a coward. No one wants to be with a coward. Move on. Ignore him to the best of your abilities
2006-12-09 12:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw your shoulders back, suck it up and move on. Now that you are a free man, go out there and flirt with the other girls in your school. In time you will be over her. Pain is only temporary.
2006-12-09 12:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy by hanging out with single friends
2006-12-09 12:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by not*a*placebo*81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you really can do is grieve, let yourself be sad. Take everything one moment at a time, then as you feel better one hour at a time, then one day... that's all you can do.
2006-12-09 12:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tigerlillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play games, work out, go to your other gender friends or who you like a lot....Or...buy the nintendo wii..you can do all these things i just said with it aswell.
2006-12-09 12:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by nepgertje 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋