alright so im 14 and i have a boyfriend and we have been going out since .....a long time more than 6 weeks. we have hugged. but he only hugged me after highschool football games. (everyone in my town goes to them) we haven't kissed and he has only called twice. its like he needs a reason to call me. he talks to me in french when we can talk and he sometimes wanlks with me to lunch and stuff. But that was when both of our friends ditched us at the same time so we were left alone like right next to eachother so we walked and talked. He talks to me outside my bus after school when he doesnt have practice. but he wont make any moves at all!!!!!!! i want him to call and crap like that but he like is too afraid to???????? i dont even know. hes had other girlfriends before so i dk whats going on they were in high school 2. (we're in 8th) i dk even know what im talking about just help me!!!!he has said many times he does like me to like other people. and yeah i can sorta tell too. this one time online he said i was amazing and he didnt know what he would do without me but he like never says stuff like that. I'm wondering if hes shy or something? like i said i dont know what i mean
2006-12-09 12:47:12 · 11 answers · asked by sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok let's get started.
1. Maybe he is afraid to call and doesn't know what to talk about.
2. He probably is shy.
3. Maybe you should hug him, and maybe a kiss on the cheek.
4. Just talk to him.
Hope I helped.
2006-12-09 12:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 01:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should be aiming your question towards OLDER people with experience but hey
you need to talk to him about it, is what you need to do.
You're obviously frustrated about all these things, and he needs to be aware of it, that you feel that he is not doing his part in the relationship.
he's doing a lot of avoidance type things, he's avoiding you
not calling, not hanging out, not having to walk with you until forced
that doesn't really sound like someone who is shy
that sounds like somebody who may have a problem with things, and doesn't know how to talk about it.
so maybe you need to be the one to bring it up.
and don't let him b.s. his way out of it either. 'cause that's another thing he might try to do, might say "the reason I don't call you baby is 'cause I'm too afraid" BS. You've gotta get down to the bottom of it, and don't let him run away from his true feelings, whether they are to be with you, or not.
In the end, you may find that it's better if you guys just be apart, then sobeit. Would you rather be in a relationship with a dude that acts like he doesn't appreciate you, or in one with a dude who really shows that he cares?
It's your choice.
2006-12-09 12:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by bun223 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young Girl! Sorry, but I couldn't resist sending you this message. Take some advice from me, a women. Don't trip about your little boyfriend. Boys your age are dumb!!!! I can't stress that enough. I hate telling you this but, men are kinda dumb also! It's all about mind games. If you don't pay attention to him he'll really like you. If you pay to much attention to him then he'll ignore you. Always remember this next piece of advise: All guys want to do is get in your pants! This will not change until you are about 50 years of age. Keep your head up and don't let little a**holes get you down!
2006-12-09 13:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by Estrella Negra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump the D*** I know how you feel honey..... actually I don't, just trying to make you feel better.He sounds like he's using you as a rebound and you aren't really there. That is such a guy thing. I don't know why they do It.
2006-12-09 13:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by If nothing lasts forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wll, hes probably just afraid 2 ask u or s waiting 4 u 2 show some interest...
2006-12-09 12:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by boatcow31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know i'm not a guy, but my bff is in this situation. start making subtle moves, like holding his hands to show you really like him. it will move along, just be patient, and keep trying.
2006-12-09 12:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by three4three 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That must have taken alot of work postin the same thing over and over again. lol. he's probably just nervous because he likes you alot
2006-12-09 12:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by BassMasta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on...stop posting the same question just ask him...BTW 6 weeks is not a long time dating someone_
2006-12-09 12:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. are you sure your "DATING"
2. ex-highschool girlfriends (maybe they scarred him)
3. maybe he picked you cause your his age, and dont expect so much from him
4.you obviously havent let him no how you feel...
AND you seriously couldnt analyze this YOURSELF!?!?!
****TRY TALKING TO THE POOR KID FIRST BEFORE HE FINDS OUT YOU TALKED TO EVERY ONE ON THE INTERNET BEFORE HIM*****
2006-12-09 13:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋