So I started dating this guy [let's call him Z] and about twenty minutes ago, I got an IM saying that we were over. I told my friend Alexa, and Alexa asked Z's brother why, and apparently Z thinks I'm anorexic!
What should I do?
I'm sooo depressed right now.
2006-12-09 12:39:35 · 28 answers · asked by Abby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOTE: I am not anorexic or bulimic. I eat A LOT, but I have a high metabolism. I'm just naturally skinny.
2006-12-09 12:45:24 · update #1
He may have good reason for thinking that. Maybe you should seek counseling. Ask your friend if you are too skinny.
2006-12-09 12:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've dated a few models and I can tell you they're not anorexic. Like you to have a high metabolism and are very slim. These women tend to be slim, somewhat tall and with small breast. I find it incredibly sexy. … what your number???
But not all men find this interesting at all. To some men its complete turnoff. One of my friends only dates women that have that 1400 Europeans look…. you know where all the naked women are painted fat. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Don't be depressed because I would go out in a second….. and there are other guys that will appreciate your look. One model I know actually had a big problem in school because she was slim and skinny. She actually got into modeling because she hated how people treat her and wanted to prove her beauty.
This guy is pretty shallow if he's not man enough to break up with you in person. And pretty stupid if he doesn't ask you about something that concerns him. Take a deep breath….. take it easy…. if you get to depress the e-mail me.... don't let this get to you.
Mark
Book Author – GirlsTellAll
2006-12-10 01:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you anorexic? I mean he really can't conjure up this notion out of nowhere. Did you ever say - I'm fat? (when you obviously are skinny). Did you ever tell him "no, I don't want dessert I'm watching my weight" Even though a couple extra calories won't hurt you? I think the whole - braking up via I'm was immature and cowardly also. When did it become socially acceptable to be somewhat anti social? You don't need to be with someone so cold and immature anywhere - count this as a blessing. Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-12-09 20:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is are u anorexic? If you are and he found out he was probably scared. It's very dramatic for a boy's girlfriend to have a eating disorder. If you not anorexic talk to him. Let him know that you ARE NOT anorexic.
2006-12-09 20:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just say first that him dumping you by IM is just wrong. If it were me I wouldn't want him back. If he can't tell you over the phone or in person, then he's a scared little chicken and a big jerk.
but..
If you do want him back, talk to him and tell him you aren't anorexic and try to convince him about that.
However, there has to be something that you've done that made him think that..
2006-12-09 20:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it the guy an air head, and your probably a very wonderful beautiful girl another guy is dreaming to have. So cheer up and put the old trash in the garbage and keep going with the day!!
2006-12-09 21:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Matej 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young, darlin', with all this he said, she said, so I said stuff. So...I'm thinking this isn't as big of a deal as you think it is right now.
Do you really want to date someone that judgemental of you? And, honestly, do you really think he broke up with you because of that or was he being immature and looking for an excuse? If you don't have an eating disorder, forget that jerk and find a guy who will love you for who you are. Believe me, you will. Plenty of guys like itty bitty girls. You're a lucky lady! So forget that loser. He didn't deserve you.
2006-12-09 20:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by Eri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy is being shallow. He has this mental picture of what all women should look like and if a girl doesn't he finds an excuse not to go out with them. Everyone is different and special in their own way. My advice to you is to forget about him and find someone who likes you just the way you are. I hope this helps. Good luck with everything.
2006-12-09 21:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by out_of_exile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is retarded! IF anything, society says the skinny ***** wins. Loose this jerk, he was appearently fake and immature. I say this because that 'break-up-reason' means he broke up with you for being 'YOU'. You don't need it. Have some fun, enjoy being you, that is the best way to fall head over heels in LOVE with someone new.
2006-12-09 20:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by xillith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is a way of finding out if we are compatible with someone. Lucky you! You found out this "Z" is not the right guy for you before you had 3.6 children with him. Now go find someone you CAN be happy with for the rest of your life.
2006-12-09 20:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by csburridge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋