i was going out with this gurl for about 2 yrs,and i thought we would always be in love,but in the end she broke my heart.do girls always lead you on to heartbreaks?
2006-12-09 12:36:07 · 13 answers · asked by tahi830 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, of course not. Some girls find it fun but me and the rest of the world want to have a relationship that lasts forever just like you.
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2006-12-09 12:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by roxitrin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry. I don't think all girls lead guys on to heartbreak. I broke up with my last boyfriend because he said he loved me but we never went anywhere together. It got very boring. We went out for almost a year. Getting over a person that you have been with for that long can be difficult. Don't worry you will find the right girl. Good Luck =)
2006-12-09 12:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls may think they're going for a nice guy who infact isn't. I've done that once or twice. I generally go for nice guys. Like someone else said, confidence is sexy and the bad guys are more outspoken so get the females attention more. I'd choose a nice guy over a bad guy anyday though. My current boyfriend's a nice guy and he's absolutely perfect. He's popular and extremely attractive, a lot of girls think he's attractive but he still kept as a nice guy. The guy above is an idiot aswell, nice guys aren't all shy and closed in the bedroom, trust me.
2016-05-23 00:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Gwendolyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you asking us, about this one girl? Or has it happened to you twice? Or something? 'cause you're only saying here that it's happened to you, once.
I'd say off of this information anyway, to not assume that all girls are going to break your heart, though it's tempting, for the protection.
If you *really* wanna protect yourself, or need time to think, stay on the single dating scene for a while. That's the best way to do it, and nobody gets hurt.
I'll tell you this, I am right now trying to get over this dude from music class that led me on, and it hurts, real bad. He was really cute, too!!!! Damn!!!!
But he was getting over a bad break-up, and he couldn't plainly tell me what he want 'cause he didn't know his own self, but I didn't have to wait for him
I don't blame him for it
because sometimes people honestly don't know what they want, they're not necessarily evil monsters from the devil
don't be afraid of love because of that one time... or even if it was a few times... somebody out there will be more compatible with you and have a good relationship with you, they will come along.
2006-12-09 12:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by bun223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately that is life.Until you find the one you are meant to be with,almost all relationships will end in heartache for one or both people.Look at it this way,every woman you are with from now til then will help you to be the person you need to be in order to be with the person you just couldn't be you without.(you know the one person who will "complete" you) I hope that makes sense to you( i really can't find a better way to say it).It's a learning and growing process.Not every person we love is meant to be the person we grow old with.I have had my share of heartbreak,just had it broke recently actually.Although it hurts, i know it's just part of life and it will,in the end,make me stronger and wiser.Keep your chin up and best of luck.
2006-12-09 12:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by The Wanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life, you are always going to get your heart broke. Its just part of it all. Sometimes, relationships just run its course, other times people are unsure of themselves and do things they regret. When you finally find that person you can marry you will know. You both will be able to go the distance and stick together to thick and thin.
2006-12-09 12:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i can assure you that that is not so. although some girls do enjoy taking the boys "for a ride", the majority of the female sex is embarrassed by women like such. keep your spirits up, and i'm sure that you will find the right girl!
ps. remember that some girls think the same thing about men...
2006-12-09 12:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think so i have been dumped and it hurts like hell, but it is a part of life, You will find the right girl one day just enjoy yourself I am single and it is ok and i have had my heart shattered: the more relationship experience you have the easier it gets.Good Luck :)
2006-12-09 12:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by kel s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, what do you expect out of a relationship? if you and she planned a relationship and went on for years, growing together and planning together and then one day she said "that's it Bub..." then I would say "yes" but, it happens on both sides. You get out what you put in, if you put in more and expect to much without asking then your asking for it, in more then one way.
2006-12-09 12:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same question could be asked of guys..
i think its more of the person than their gender
2006-12-09 12:39:03 · answer #10 · answered by Vanessa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋