Ok I'm not that great at talking to people but if i like a guy i try and go after even try my end at flirting with 'em. and im not fat or anything and i have a nice body and im not ugly well at least i hope im not. i just dont get it, i have neve had a boyfriend and im already almost done with highschool. what am i going wrong? is this there something wrong with me?!what should i do?
2006-12-09 12:34:18 · 25 answers · asked by inu96star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys like girls that make the first move. Be a bit more outgoing and see if there are any results. But seriously, you don't need a guy to make you happy. The guy you're looking for will eventually come, and when he does, you'll be glad.
2006-12-09 12:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Shortii. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing for you to remember is that this is not about something you are doing "wrong", and it may not really have anything to do with you. It is confusing and hurtful when someone you like doesn't respond to you, but looking to yourself as the source of the problem can make it feel even worse.
Ask yourself if you are comfortable with who you are on the inside, not just who you see in the mirror - the best relationships are built with people who respect and see the good in you, but you need to see (and believe) that as well.
It's also good to remember that while others are dating in high school, the fact that you haven't dated anyone doesn't mean you've run out of time or that you're abnormal. I might even say that you're dodging some of the frustration and drama your classmates are experiencing.
Hindsight is always 20-20, so much of this may sound cliche to you, but there's a whole lot of experience out there that says you're doing just fine.
2006-12-09 20:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by cabecadura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. I thought the same way when I was in highschool, I even wondered if I ever would get marry. As a matter of fact, I not only got marry (twice) but also I had tons of guys that wanted to go out with me (even nowadays)
As I said, there's nothing wrong with you, it's just not the right time. Take care of yourself and build up your selfsteem, because the good guys out there what they really want is a lady that is confident, and if you think high of yourself, you will attrackt those that think high of themselves and among them will be the right match for you.
Love yourself, you're a wonderful woman, just beleive it.
2006-12-09 20:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jean D'Arc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should consider yourself lucky. Focus on your studies, because that is what is going to get you far in life. A boyfriend just complicates your education. Besides, if you are fat, skinny, ugly, pretty; none of that really matters to a mature man. What matters is that you two make each other laugh and are very comfortable together. When you have that, both of you will find that you each become attractive to each other. Try not to look so hard for love; when you don't, love will find you.
2006-12-09 20:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im almost done with high school, and i have never really had a girlfriend n i was voted most handsome n most likely to suceed. maybe you should calm down, n let them come to you. put yourself out there, and dont ever put all your cards in one guys hand! Think of it this way, if you throw 12 lines into the sea your bound to catch one fish right instead of just throwing 1? agree? There is no girl i couldnt get, but the ones that made me want them more, were the ones that made me guess, and played not to care so much. myspace.com/wn1988.. add me
2006-12-09 20:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. Just don't try so hard. Be yourself and don't waste time thinking of such things. This is the best way to get the attention from boys: go to college, excercise, do charity works, get a great career, enjoy what you do, be beautiful and confident. They'll love you.
2006-12-09 20:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by m&m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a boy and at that age, boys either already have a girlfriend, or they are too caught up in other non-social things to notice pretty girls(atleast u look pretty from ur avatar). You should just ask them out and DON'T BE SHY(that is probably the problem)!
2006-12-09 20:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by Gamerfreak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worrying? What activities are you into? Are "guys" in that same activity? Do a science project with a guy! Are you known for having friends who are guys? Maybe they like you, but they think that you will reject them because you just think of them as friends to you. You know, my sister had her first official kiss in her senior year of highschool, and no one I know has a crush on me! I'm not worrying!
2006-12-09 20:37:25 · answer #8 · answered by Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never had a boyfriend in HS because it was my choice because I didn't want to settle. there's nothing wrong with you. i don't look like a freak either but that's the way i was. if you really want a boyfriend, just try to be more outgoing, spark conversations with guys you may like but most of all, just give it some time. you're young!
2006-12-09 20:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by mikey19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your confidence...If there is one thing that guys can since its a girl with low self-esteem or thats not confident..The more the better..Boost yourself up with a makeover and a new outfit...Im sure you'll have a man soon.
2006-12-09 20:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by Lovely You 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋