heres the problem...me and my friend are REALLY close emotion wise anyway other then that were so far away...were not dating because of it...but were aware of each others feelings...and there growing day by day...im going there when im 17 which is about 1 and a half years from now...but im not sure how much i can take it....or how long she can...we cant stop thinking about each other...what do we do to to help the pain?
p.s. i live in canada and she lives in north carolina...so driving is out of the question...
2006-12-09 12:31:56 · 6 answers · asked by david d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, long distance relationships can be very difficult even for people older than you. If you truly feel that you are meant for each other, then just keep in touch by mail, e-mail, or phone, and do your best to let each other know how you feel. You didn't say how long you have been together (feelings) or how long you've been apart, but be ready for a tough time. It is often hard not to seek other companionship in the abscence of someone. Noone likes to be alone. Also make sure not to commit yourself to a relationship that may not work so early in your life. Just be prepared for a heartache, but good luck in your quest for love. I've been married for almost 18 years and found my true love when I was just 16.
2006-12-09 12:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by OLD GUY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch thru the internet, email, chat programs, telephone, cards, letters and think that both of u are still very young and have a lot of time to meet and maybe plan some hols together. After all, what's the rush?
2006-12-09 12:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by ladysorrow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. I had a long distance feeling thing before. I say keep in touch and stay updated! Either your feelings will get stronger or lesser only time can tell. As for me, I seperated myself from my long-distance (across the Atlantic Ocean) buddy because it really was painful and it really wasn't benefitial to my health! lol
2006-12-09 12:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships seldom work, especially when you are so young. Why not just be her E-pal and share your feelings with her, but be realistic and find someone in your own backyard.
2006-12-09 12:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch with her until the time comes. If she is worth it, your emotions will keep growing stronger until then.
2006-12-09 12:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by banana_splitt00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either one of you should move. probably you, you are 17 and i'll bet she is younger.
2006-12-09 12:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Louiegirl_Chicago 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋