So this guy I met about 5 years ago, but since we met when he was traveling to my hometown, we then kept in touch through emails and chats (thank you people for the internet!). I've gotten to know more about him in during that time, and I'm very sure there was a time when we were practically flirting around in chats. We kinda lost contact for about 2 years. Then on my bday he sent an email, and then we just found out that we were 2 hr away from each other. So we met up and he gave me a tour of his city. In the 24hours we were together, I swear I have never been more head over heels over any man I've met before. I dunno, maybe it was the city, the lights, or the xmas ornaments but I just never felt this way before, he's the first one that made me wanna kiss him while we were talking. The thing is he has a gf (which btw he's never mentioned till i saw her pic at his apartment), and also he's moving away in 2 weeks...i wanna see him again, but i dunno if i can take it...help me please!
2006-12-09 12:28:48 · 14 answers · asked by Chia Pet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If i was in your shoes, i would see him again, and see if i still feel the same way. That excitement. I know when i first met my boyfriend i felt that, i knew he was different than any other guy i have ever met, and i wanted, and Needed to be with him. Luckily both of us were single, and were able to start dating. But if he did have a girlfriend, i would have kept seeing him as just friends, and see what happens. Maybe he will become single, or move to a place where you can still see each other. If you feel that special something about him, i would keep in touch, cause it doesn't come around that often. Good luck, and i hope everything works out for you.
2006-12-09 12:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately he has a gf, but spend time with him as a friend until he moves away. Ask him why he e mailed you after 2 years, just before he moves farther away.
2006-12-09 12:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him bomb *** sex get him sprung or stay freinds with benifits dont get all whooped whe you havent gotten no type of sighn that says boy freind material . Says he is moving and he never mentioned a girlfreind did you have any type of sexual contact when you were at apartment? im a say no thats probably said he is moving but i bet you go to that house his girl is going to answer the door.
2006-12-09 12:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by pimpNJOKRXIVER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S OKAY TO BE FRIENDS WITH THIS GUY BUT IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOU ARE SETTING YOURSELF UP FOR SOME REAL HURT. SINCE HE IS MOVING AWAY AND HAS A GIRLFRIEND MAYBE YOU SHOULD TAKE THAT AS SIGN THAT IT IS TIME TO CHAT WITH SOMEONE ELSE. GLAD YOU ENJOYED THE TRIP TO THE CITY.
2006-12-09 12:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by trena h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's moving away AND he has a g/f he DIDN'T tell you about? You just got caught up in a "romantic" moment. Ask Santa for a new guy.
2006-12-09 12:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a girl friend that he didn't tell you about. You haven't talked to him in 2 years. I know the feelings are strong, but you should take your time.
2006-12-09 12:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by just curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away girl! he never told you he had a girlfriend the whole time? and you're ok with that? imagine he leaves this girl for you soon or eventually...think about what he did when he was with her, ....what would make you feel secure thinking he wouldnt do the same to you?
2006-12-09 12:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it, its a great excuse to see him again, and that way you can get his entire response not just what he is saying(or writing), normally id say go for it, but he does have a GF, dont be that girl, even if you both want to, he'll ne'er respect you as much if you dont wait. besides, your both grown up, you can visit him.
2006-12-09 12:34:32 · answer #8 · answered by Kain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until he is free, how would u feel if u were the girlfriend, if it is meant to be it will be. let him be until he is free. can't build a relationship without trust, and he wasn't honest with u. u may be setting yourself up for heartbreak if u see him again, and he is not willing to give up his girlfriend.
2006-12-09 12:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see you getting hurt gal. Talk with him and ask him how things are between he and his girlfriend and why he kissed you. If he likes you, he will keep in touch.
2006-12-09 12:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by ladysorrow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋