alright so im 14 and i have a boyfriend and we have been going out since .....a long time more than 6 weeks. we have hugged. but he only hugged me after highschool football games. (everyone in my town goes to them) we haven't kissed and he has only called twice. its like he needs a reason to call me. he talks to me in french when we can talk and he sometimes wanlks with me to lunch and stuff. But that was when both of our friends ditched us at the same time so we were left alone like right next to eachother so we walked and talked. He talks to me outside my bus after school when he doesnt have practice. but he wont make any moves at all!!!!!!! i want him to call and crap like that but he like is too afraid to???????? i dont even know. hes had other girlfriends before so i dk whats going on they were in high school 2. (we're in 8th) i dk even know what im talking about just help me!!!!he has said many times he does like me to like other people. and yeah i can sorta tell too. this one time online he said i was amazing and he didnt know what he would do without me but he like never says stuff like that. I'm wondering if hes shy or something? like i said i dont know what i mean
2006-12-09 12:27:09 · 4 answers · asked by beach 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is not a Boyfriend by any description my dear, that is just a friend. You will know when a guy likes you and just take your time as you are only 14 and you will have many years to be with someone. Just because all your friends are pairing up doesn't mean it is right for you now, and it is certainly not a measure of you worth as a person if you have a boyfriend or not. My Mom used to say " just because everybody else is going to jump off of a bridge, does that mean that you will follow too ? "
2006-12-09 12:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy so from a 14 year old guy's(me) point of view, i would think i am too shy to make any moves. I would be shy because you would be beautiful and not only that, i would like you for you. Why dont you ask him out. NOT ON AN OFFICIAL DATE YET!!! Just ask him to go for smoothies or something. YOU MAKE THE FIRST MOVE IF HE DOESN'T.
- From a guy who cares
2006-12-09 12:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by Gamerfreak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like him a lot then you need to be the one making some moves (if that's what you want to happen)... assuming he's not gay and you're decent looking, then everything else should be fine - but if you want it to work out and you like him then you should be willing to do things to keep his interest and make sure that he doesn't get bored with you
2006-12-09 12:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by forex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not looking for a serious thing with you. You have a talk with him.
2006-12-09 12:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋