Hi, I have posted about this before but it's still getting on my nerves. I had a terrible fight with a male friend of mine, we both exchanged horrible words and he told me never to contact him again or he'd take formal action. I did send him a sincere apology email but never heard anything back.
Recently I have seen him at afew events and he is still staring at me (he has for the past 2yrs). My friend who I was with noticed as well. I have tried to ignore this but the last time it really got to me. we were at a concert and he was sitting 2 rows infront of me, he kept turning around and looking at me, not with a nasty look, just watching me. I felt very disturbed by this as he was the one who said never to contact him again. I sent him a emai afew days ago asking him why he keeps looking at me after everything and what does he want from me? He hasn't responded and it's driving me nuts because we will cross paths occasionally and I don't want to feel nervous/worried .
2006-12-09 12:22:18 · 13 answers · asked by charmed one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm just confused because I don't know what he wants? I would have thought he'd bite back to my email with something?anything, at least defending his actions.
2006-12-09 12:23:22 · update #1
He probably doesn't even know why himself. But if I had words with someone and he threatened to call the cops if I contacted him, then started staring at me every time I was around, I'd be a little freaked out. He sounds a bit unstable.
Don't contact him again. If he ever wants to talk to you, then he'll find a way to contact you. If you keep sending him emails, he might just follow through on his threat.
2006-12-09 12:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if the seats were numbered but could've you gotten up and moved to a different seat further back? I know that this isn't a perfect solution but...for that moment it would've helped. I see that you have apologized...do you have any mutual friends that could talk to him and kind of in a round about way find out what he is thinking. I mean you don't want to put the mutual friend in a bad situation but at the same time it would be nice to know what he is thinking. If it was me the next time that I was someplace and he was there too if he was staring at me, I think that I would walk up and talk to him nicely and ask him not to stare at me and let him know that it's not appreciated. BTW did you email him and him know that you saw him staring at you at the concert? Maybe in an email you could let him know that he is making you uncomfortable and you don't like him staring at you. You could also mention at the same time that you would be willing to start the friendship back up if he wants to and if you want to. Good luck!
2006-12-09 20:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear you need to walk away from this situation and let go. Obviously there is only pain and hurt for you two, and you have to ask yourself why you keep endeavouring to continue. Stop now and move on.
2006-12-09 20:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing with you. He knows that this bothers you, and he'll keep doing it as long as he gets the reaction he wants (for you to be upset). Ignore him, don't look at him, email him, nothing at all, when he realizes he's not getting to you anymore, he'll quit.
2006-12-09 20:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by letsgetagripalready 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried the phone instead of an email? If this is someone you know, u shud be able to talk to him
2006-12-09 20:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r in love with him the give him lil more time he will write back but if he was just a friend then backup don't bother let him enjoy his life and u do same
2006-12-09 20:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by sam402ny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone...he's sending mixed signals it sounds like to me. If your over him..let him see that. Dont stare at him when you see him. He may think that something is mentally wrong with you.
2006-12-09 20:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lovely You 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, mabey what it is after use split up or wotever happened he has realised he still has feelings for you and he wont answer you emails beacause he mite think that something could happen
2006-12-09 20:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by x.x.kacey.x.x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing games with you because he knows you like him.... Just stop contacting.... that will teach him
2006-12-09 20:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by ladysorrow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh get over it. both of u. need to just say ur sorry and get over it. or just dont talk and dont ever be friends again
2006-12-09 20:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋