I am a 25-year old, and I don't know what to do. I try to act tough and I tell people I don't like romance, and that is right. I would never want a girlfriend or a wife. I have an anxiety about asking girls out, although I will not admit that to friends. I don't think I want to change though. I just don't know why I think like this. I don't want to love someone, as I view it as kissing someone's behind. I view love as gushy, and I see it as embarassing. I have a fear of showing love. I pretend I don't though. I just get PISSED OFF when I think about love. I think I almost hate it. I just have a feeling sometimes I am ruining my life, but, I feel like doing that. I hate my parents, but they tried to show me love. They were good to me, but I am mean to them. I want to get a girl, and dump her after 2 days and make her cry when I dump her in front of everyone. And don't tell me to go to a counselor, as I won't. I will laugh the day I am alone and enjoying myself, and my friends have.
2006-12-09 12:22:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to deal with bitchy wives and annoying little kids. And for some reason, I hate sex. Don't now why. I am not gay.
2006-12-09 12:22:57 · update #1
I might beat a woman if I had one because I hate people, and I have punched men and women alike, before. I even hit my mom once.
2006-12-09 12:24:23 · update #2
Women can kiss my a$$. I will never love someone even if they love me. if they love me, I will yell at them and make them cry.
2006-12-09 12:26:22 · update #3
I will never get help or counseling.
2006-12-09 12:27:00 · update #4
Jesus is not the answer.
2006-12-09 12:27:49 · update #5
I am stupid and ugly, so who would love me? I don't think anyone would love me.
2006-12-09 12:28:43 · update #6
You shouldn't have to apologize for the way you feel or the opinions you have. But you should realize that if those are the opinions and feelings you think you definitely have, then you should probably stay away from the people you hate. It's okay to feel a certain way privately in your own self arena, but it's not okay to hurt or harm others with hatred. If I were you I probably just wouldn't date anyone to ensure I wouldn't harm anyone, but I would still be comfortable with myself and my disposition because it's who I am.
2006-12-09 12:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by senoritadui 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking the question (if you are serious) says that you really aren't OK with all of this. You say you won't seek help so what is it you want from here then? There is no pill for this. All I can say is I do hope my daughter's don't run into you.
And I do find it sad that you can't enjoy women, sex, being with someone. I think we all need that, that we are made for it. We live longer when we aren't alone.
But there really could be someone out there for you. Someone who isn't into the gushy part of romance and who is more straight forward, not bitchy and who doesn't really care much for sex. The problem is you may never find her if you keep dumping women after 2 days. Might give it at least a week before humiliating them.
Later - first you said you "act" like you don't want love. Do you? I think you do. Or that at least you'd like to want it. Sometimes strangers are better than friends. At least at listening.
You may think your lost. I don't. You can email if you'd like. I don't think you're stupid. I doubt that you're ugly. You may feel that way. Something is up here. Take me up on my offer.
2006-12-09 20:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sounds awfully bitter. Someone must have messed you up.
Look at your options.
You can live life without anyone, stepping all over every person who tries to know you until you are too ugly or old for anyone to ever try to get to know you, OR you can try to cut down the tough guy barrier and allow someone to get in.
Doesn't have to be a woman, it can be your parents or your friends, you obviuosly act like you hate them to their face, why don't you try being pleasant for once. See how it makes you feel.
You might realize it is a lot more work to hate everyone and everything that it is to just live life.
2006-12-09 20:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that a relationship would make you hostile, then don't get into a relationship. You don't NEED a woman to complete you. And a woman certainly doesn't need to be beaten by a man who is just mad at the world. Don't get into a relationship if you hate them, don't have kids if you hate them. Just live your life the way you want, and not how others think you should. Not everyone is meant to have a relationship. If you don't like sex, well....you've got two hands! Have fun!
2006-12-09 20:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Abby C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be one angry 25 year old. I aint gonna tell you to seek councling I don't believe in them.They like playen with the brain and bad. But you shouldn't have a g/f right now not till you find your anger problem and try to solve it. Maybe love just aint your thing. I know plenty of guys that are single, stayed single, passed away but they were happy the way they lived no woman in their life. Good Luck and I hope you don't hurt people cuz of your anger it aint fair to others.
2006-12-09 20:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Babie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a hug and some good affection, I'm sorry that you feel this way.. It's ok, don't stress so much and I wish you all the happiness in the world.. when I unleash some of my inner growth later I will be wishing that out to you...
2006-12-09 20:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sort of the same way, although I actually mean it when I say that I don't like romance. You seem to be faking it. Yes, I am suspicious of all men, but I don't exactly HATE them.
2006-12-09 20:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have 2 sides one side is that you hate women and the second side you really want someone to love
2006-12-09 20:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by Vanilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need professional help to deal with your anger problem and issues. I'm not saying it to be mean, but because you really do need help. It's ok to ask for help when you need it.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-09 20:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to change ur attitude cause if u keep it up nobody will want you. if i knew you i'd beat the livin dog **** out of u for the way u treat people.i hope the hell ur mom beats the **** out of u so you'll learn ur damn lesson.
2006-12-09 20:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by bigballa_8767 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋